Is it normal he's not pressing for sex despite his history

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I am 25 year old woman. I am a virgin and I have been seeing a 31 year old guy for 4 months now. He is amazing. I am a virgin and he just revealed to me he has slept with 20 women, I was floored. I am not judging but obviously he seems like a sexual guy but he is not pressuring me to have sex which I find odd. He treats me with respect and he doesn't act like something is lacking in our relationship. He says that he can control himself and that he respects my boundaries.

I am so puzzled, all this coming from a 31 year old grown man who has had 20 sexual partners and has been in relationships were sex was present. Why is he chill with me? I keep waiting for other ball drop. He spends all day at work and on the weekends he's with me. I know he isnt getting his bread buttered elsewhere.

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  • JonathanOo
    7 years ago

    He is being cautious. Perhaps he wants something serious and doesn't want sex to interfere. It's also possible he doesn't know what YOU want and is waiting for an invitation. If you're looking to have sex make sure you're ready. I wouldn't ever want to do it with someone I don't love. If you really want to be serious with him make it known. Don't assume he will control everything and force you to go along with it. He may want consent, especially if he's never been with a virgin before

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