Is it normal he is losing interest in me

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I have an online man friend and we're heavily attracted to each other, we haven't met because of distance he lives in Auckland and I live in Christchurch (New Zealand). I have never heard his voice but it's been 8 months now of communicating via text every other day but the whole thing is losing its heat so to speak sorely because of my refusal to send images to him of my self, (he knows what I look like from my social media accounts) and how I can't for the life of me hone my sexting skills and I feel it's unfair to him but also I can't send raunchy images because that's not the kind of person I am, I refuse to compromise my true self but I'm worried that I can feel him slipping away from me, what should I do. Also, is it normal that after all these months I've never even heard the sound of his voice.

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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    8 months and you've never even heard him? I think he's playing you. He just wants your pictures so he can put them up all over the internet, and if he isn't and really likes you then he can fucking wait! Horny bastard.

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    The jist I get from reading this, is that you have a fairly level head, and that you wouldn't necessarily put up with a man pressuring you to do anything sexual, in an internet relationship or otherwise. If he truly cared about you, he would have the patience to wait until you are comfortable and not demand anything.

    You said you guys only talk through text, which is a concern. When dealing with someone you haven't met, it's quite easy to fill in the blanks and idealize them, basically making them into the person you want them to be, and that's something you have to be wary of.

    There's nothing wrong with sending sexual pictures, but it has to be something you are completely comfortable with, and even then, you might want to be careful to find out more personal details about him, or avoid sending nudes that include your face.

    You have to decide for yourself if this is something that you want, something that you're comfortable with. Don't do it just because you are scared of losing him. If he cared about you, he'd stick around either way.

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  • Toxicuniverse
    9 years ago

    Dude he wants your nudes so he can ruin your life be carful trust me people are different in person than they are through txt trust me ik

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  • DingDongCabong
    9 years ago

    He should go on webcam or call you on skype.
    Tell him you wont send anything until you guys talk on skype via webcam

    THEN you will know if hes real or not

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I'd imagine after 8 months he's definitely losing interest. Time for some face to face .

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