Is it normal he does this ?

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My Boyfriend is weird at times. He breaks up with me EVERY WEEK. I've been broken up with bc I asked should I get a vibrator, I talked to my ex about work through social media, and the most recent was I was talking to my family and couldn't text him back and he said I was ignoring him. These break ups really have a affect on me and its not healthy. Many of you would say lease but we've almost been together for 2 years. And this Started after he came back from AIT with them army about 8 months ago !

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  • Koda
    8 years ago | pl

    I shall address this as your imaginary, sassy, gay BFF:

    Honey, he's got problems. *snaps* You need to make him realize he's got you on a rollercoaster. Sure, he's insecure, but that doesn't mean he should put you through hell for it. All the reasons you listed for the breakups, they're all dumb, and he knows it too. It's obvious he's testing you. He doesn't want you to turn out to be a flake and be the one to break his heart instead. He wants to remain in control (straight guy thing), but a relationship is a two-way street, and he should know that you won't keep coming back to him forever. You need to communicate, and tell him, if he wants you, he can't keep you on a leash (You're no French poodle, Honey). You're allowed to talk to other guys as friends. You're allowed to have some time to yourself. You're allowed to do whatever you want to do in your free time (Ooh, Girl, but I don't need the deetz). He doesn't own you. He needs to trust you. Somewhere along the line he lost his trust, but if you're going to stick it out, he needs to find that again, because you haven't lost yours yet, but if he keeps toying with you, you might just.

    </gay> :)

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    • Crusades_
      8 years ago

      Since when is wanting to have control a "straight guy thing" ?

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      • Koda
        8 years ago

        Ahem. I think you'll find I was in character when I said that.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Leave him.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You are going to leave this guy sooner or later, unless you enjoy his childish crap, so why not do it today?

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    • u_danestt
      8 years ago

      I guess I'm just waiting for him to change

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I think climate change will happen faster.

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  • reginaFalangi
    8 years ago

    Koda is right.
    Don't put up with that nonsense.
    I've been there :(

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  • sugartits
    8 years ago

    shove a few fingers in his ass during sex

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    I went through shit like this with my high school boyfriend. I'd like to go back and smack my stupid self around a bit for always getting back with him. Til that one day I snapped..

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    What you need to ask is why you do this? Once should be enough to be done. Are you that needy that you want him back that badly? I see other people on relationships where one will break up but they get back together anyways. Its quite pathetic. Move on.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Putting up with his bullshit is bad for your state of mind.

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