Is it normal hate having my grown underemployed daughter living at home?

You are the most boring troll I've ever seen. Do you really not have anything better to do than make up these dumb stories?

Can you at least work out how to hide your obvious writing style for once in your life? Predictable as fuck.

Is it too late to abort it in your area?

Look at it from her perspective. She has a dad with high cholesterol who yells at her all the time and blows up at her over nothing, doesn't care that it upsets her, doesn't even want to drive her five minutes to work. (By the way, that kind of stress contributes to your high cholesterol.) I bet there's a lot of others things you do that cause problems for her too. She probably hates living with you just as much as you hate having her there.

You're both part of the problem. You both have to be part of the solution.

Buy her a regular latte as punishment, to remind her who's boss.

You are a shitty troll.

She's only acting the way she does is because you're constantly YELLING AT HER.

I seriously thought this was my dad posting this until I noticed two things. I don't own a car. Also despite of my obesity, I don't eat much at my house due to the fear of getting blamed at for taking something.

Secondly, if my dad yells at me, I get severe anxiety attacks to the point of not breathing properly and my whole body shakes. It's so rare that my father ever yells at me.

From what you see is your daughter is a lazy baby who rely on you too much.

From your daughters perspective, she is probably like me where she would get this anxiety when attacked. Also, you can't yell at a daughter like you could at a son. We are more emotional than men. Yes, men show emotions, but we express it in proper communication. Maybe she can't help but cry because the one person who she counts on is yelling at her like a banshee. I know it's hard for a dude to communicate their feelings (I'm dating one myself), but you'll do more good if you expressed your concerns more
maturely. Maybe make goals for the two of you so this doesn't happen again. This is my perspective on this issue

It's time for some tough love. Give her time to get her own place. If she misses the dead line give her the boot.

Are you the daughter...? If so, hang in there. No, what you are going through is not normal. Get out of there as soon as you can. Recovery can come later.

Listen lady pumpkin spice latte isn’t going to cure all your relationship issues.

They say adult children are probably the worst people to have living under your roof.