Is it normal guys keep trying to get me pregnant?

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When i was 18 my first boyfriend secretly popped a hole in the condom and i knew it was intentional cuz wen it popped i freaked out but caught him smiling as he walked to the bathroom "to check the condom".

Needless to say i dumped him and took plan b.

Not even a month later i began being stalked by a random man who later robbed me, raped me, and admitted to police later on that he wanted me to have his baby... ._.

Fast forward 5 years, im homeless and after the 4th day of homelessness i meet this guy who offered me a place to stay. After a couple days we have sex and boom the mf condom just so happens to break just before he comes. -_- i tell him he is gonna buy me some plan b. And he says "i wouldnt mind u havin my baby" and tries to distract me ..
2 days after, all of a sudden hes tells me he loves me e_o

Is this normal or do i have effin baby maker onmy forehead

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    who much does 12 doses of plan B cost a year ? sounds like you and i could have some sex.

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  • johny5
    6 years ago

    I hate to hear of any body being homeless. When I was 19 I was in love with a girl and I wanted a child so I began cutting holes in condoms. After while miscarriage then left me. My wife of ten years had a full hysterectomy so no children for me. Thinking about adoption. We're glad she didn't have female cancer.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Thats sad. Im sorry. )x
      Adoption is just as beautiful as having your own.
      Its very much possible to love another child as your own. I was raised well by an aunt since i was 5 months old and felt motherless until i met the woman who adopted my older sister when she was a toddler. I love that woman more than i ever loved anyone else. She couldnt adopt me, as my family refused. But always says she would have in a heartbeat. My sister got so lucky! She thanks God for this woman everyday for adopting her and devoting herself to making her feel loved and whole.
      Esp since my sister had brown skin, her adoptive mom is white and lived in a moderately racist city. And my sister is deaf and her adoptive mom didnt even know sign language when they met.

      Im ecstatic you consider adopting! Not many men actually WANT to have kids to love and raise. Thats a blessing in itself.
      Life may not have gone the way you wished but you keep your head high and your heart open.
      Have you and the wife ever considered a surrogate mother?
      Not trying to distract you from considering adopting. I wish everyone wanted to adopt so kids werent raising themselves in the system.
      I was just asking out of curiosity. I truly dont know how surrogacy works lol

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    6 years ago

    Well, I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune; and I sure hope your situation gets better soon. It's normal... because guys obviously see "Easy" written on your forehead, and feel compelled to "conquer" you (and don't care about you getting pregnant because they don't respect you, and won't be there if you do get pregnant). SO, search for a higher character of men to fuck (or don't fuck at all)... and get on the birth control pill (free at the state health department), or some other contraceptive birth control.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    That's messed up. Sorry to hear your homeless. I'd stay away from guys just looking for a hookup if i were you

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Um.. Which guy was looking for a hookup? Cuz the 2 guys listed that i had sex with, the first one was a bf id been with non sexually for 3 years prior to the first and only sexual contact. He had proposed to me with a 18k gold ring a week before the sex. Refused to take it back after i dumped him..

      And the second guy wasnt looking for a hookup. He knew i was sleeping in the park and was worried id get killed by a kkk member, with me being brown in a racist city and whatnot. Total non-white population of a whopping 3 %. The 3 % is me, an indian family who owns a local hotel, and the chinese restaurant owners. Anyway, We'd gone out to a festival and got back to his place drunk. He didnt even remember the sex. I remembered bits and pieces. He didnt even remember going home. Lol We didnt mess around after that one time that only i remember lmao but he asked me to marry him only a few days later.
      Ofc i was shocked but as nervous as it made me feel, i put my pride aside and ignored the fact that ive only known him 5 days. And i looked him straight in his eyes, smiled, and replied
      "Hell no!." (:

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        Where do you live? And do you know them well enough to get married?

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