Is it normal get turned on when my crush tells me about having sex with other guys

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I have a friend who's an attractive girl, I've had a crush on her for about three years, I've known her for four. I've tried to get with her a couple of times and she always rejected it. I haven't tried in the last year or so and recently she's told me about three guys shes had sex with at parties. I feel jealous but also turned on when she talks about getting with guys that aren't me. Is this normal?

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  • tozergrate
    6 years ago

    Sometimes my SO will tell me about what she did in bed with other guys before she met me. She tells me this when I'm in the right mood for it and it turns me on. Other times I hate it. Same as sometimes she goes out with no panties and she'll be sitting opposite some guy in a short dress or skirt where I can see them both and that's when she'll text me to spell it out. I could also imagine deciding to let it turn me on if some girl seemed to be purposely giving me a message that I wasn't good enough for her to bother with. I had a friend for a while who would be on her mobile to other people including blokes while I was on the floor at her feet with her using me as a footrest. But it was more in play than for real. And she did it knowing I liked it on the right days. I don't think it's so very unusual to have a girl treat you a bit shitty, and enjoy it, but I wouldn't base the whole of a relationship on it. Does she know it turns you on? Like, is it something she is doing actually to get you going? Or is she just a bit of a selfish one.

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