Is it normal gamer= loser?

Not to be mean but I generally assume that gamers are losers with no life and no girlfriend or boyfriend . Probably no real friends either. The older you are and the more time you game, the bigger loser. Am I correct?

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  • Terrik1337

    Unfortunately it is my experience that lots of people think gamers are losers, and some of them are. There are many things in life that people waste their time on, and like anything else, video games have the potential to turn you into a loser. Personally I think sports fans are the biggest losers in society, in particular, football fans(American football, I haven't seen enough European football to know). To be clear, not the people who play sports themselves , just the ones that watch it religiously. I enjoy playing adult novice hockey, I suck at it but it's fun. Thing is though, many video games actually make you smarter. You will get the largest boost to your IQ by trying new video games all the time rather then sticking to a single one that you already know. I think most things in life work that way though. You get more out of new experiences then repeating old ones.

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    • konyagiPapi

      Speaking of rising IQ,why don't u try the god of war franchise game...after u done,I'm sure havard will employ you as a prof.xD

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    I play videogames constantly, got over 300 hours on skyrim, play the Xbox every day if I get the chance, usually for a few hours but I've got a girlfriend, have a not huge but decent sized and close circle of friends who go out pretty regularly

    If anything its pure circumstance of course but I've actually been more social and have gotten my shit together more since I've spent more time gaming

    If anything when I'm on the Xbox I'm usually online with friends

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  • _Crusades

    anti-hero likes to play My little pony games all the time.

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  • You are aware the the gaming industry is larger than the movie industry? It's like saying someone who watches movies has no life or partner.

    Then you have to consider all the people that are famous and game. People like Vin Diesel game, I think I heard he plays WoW, and I'd like to put money down on you saying shit to him. Aha.

    Ofcourse there will be people that fit what you say just as there are those that game but don't fit in to what you say.

    So I'd say you're incorrect.

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    • Legion

      I can see that, considering Vin diesel is also fond of playing dungeons and dragons, so him playing wow doesn't surprise me that much. Personally, I find it awesome, despite me being more into sci Fi than fantasy.

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  • TrustMeImLying

    Yes, there is a side of gaming that is loser-esque and despicable. eg. I personally don't get people who sit and watch videos of others playing games hours everyday. But that's only because I'm more of a doer than a watcher. Plus, how is that any different than someone who consumes themselves with nothing but books, netflix, or drugs? Being gluttonous about anything is loser-esque. But hey lots of people are making 10 times more money than you and I from their gluttonous gaming habits. One kid from the US has gamed an average of 10 hours a day since he was 6. That's an average mind you. Now he's 16, and this year he just won ~1.7 million USD at an international gaming tournament.

    I could give an assload of first and second hand accounts of people of different backgrounds, ages, lifestyles, majors that emphatically shatter that loser label. But that would be a waste of my time. Only three reasons you would think gamer = loser 1) Bait 2) You're severely unknowledgable about the reality of gamers and the gaming industry today 3) You belong to a very old generation, in which case it's understandable for you to be incapable of thinking differently.

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    • I have some cousins who don't have jobs and spend days in gamer marathons. One of them even wore diapers. Maybe all gamers aren't as obsessed but these guys are pretty pitiful specimens.
      I was born in their 1980s.

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      • TrustMeImLying

        And I wouldn't disagree with you there. They wouldn't warrant much respect from me either. But I'd personally see them more as dysfunctional addicts (there actually are gaming rehab centers in some Asian country iirc), instead of just gamers.

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        • According to this poll most gamers are not obsessed as my cousins. I could believe the rehab thing...!

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  • Playing games doesn't make someone a loser. It a form of entertainment just like reading and watching movies. Anything like that can become a problem though when it becomes all someone does.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Well, I guess it's like the T-shirt that stalks me on facebook says, "I'm a gamer not because I don't have a life, but because I choose to have many," or something like that.

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  • Mytwin295

    My boyfriend and I play video games. Does that make us both nerds?

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    • No I'm talking about people who do it for days straight while neglecting everything else.

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      • Legion

        That's just a very small subset of gamers.

        Also, I find that disgusting.

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      • Mytwin295

        That still doesn't make them a looser.

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        • Then what does? In my book not working and living off Cheetos and not showering makes you a big old loser.

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          • Mytwin295

            What you described is laziness. I mean, the term looser has been associated someone who obsessively plays video games...I dont know. I feel like a looser is someone who obsesses over anything and doesn't know when to stop.

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            • Fair enough

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  • Koda

    If this were true, wouldn't anyone born since 1992 be a loser then? I know very few people in that age group who don't 'game' constantly.

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  • annabrown

    Eh hemmm???? PEWDIE PIE IS A FRICKEN BEAUTIFUL MILLIONAIRE!!!

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    • Well he is one in a million

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  • Thunder_Ass

    Yup, usually weirdos with no social life. Video games are a GIANT waste of time.

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    • konyagiPapi

      In my country,we use video games on earning cash through various competitions..not a waste at all.Its just how you play it.

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      • Where do you live?

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        • konyagiPapi

          East Africa

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          • wow...

            internet fraud is a different thing

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  • weirdgiraffekid

    "I generally assume... (states generalization/stereotype)... Am I correct?"
    No, your random notion of what ALL people's lives are like based on one trait is not correct.
    Surprise!

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  • Legion

    This is an outdated stereotype anymore, 25 or thirty years ago, gaming was commonly associated with "losers", but now, its more mainstream than ever. More people game than ever before. Considering, for example, Grand Theft auto 5 has sold over 23 MILLION copies, and both Sony and Microsoft sold in excess of 100 million ps3 and Xbox 360 consoles respectively. Not to mention Nintendo, in a repeat from its success with the NES in the 1980s, managed to grab many more with its Wii system, a large percentage of those were people who would have never even looked at a videogame before then, handily outselling both Sony and Microsoft.

    Think about it, that would mean the vast majority of the US, europe and asian populations must be losers then.

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  • sega31098

    Maybe this will change your mind:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_HMLvLB7b0

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  • TheCockRoach

    I'm not a gamer anymore but did vehemently fight on behalf of and was a member and still am of #gamergate . Gamergate is the last untapped reservoir. I abhor SJWs

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  • Rick_Bawls

    It depends how old the person is. If the boy is 12 years old, then it is reasonable to spend some time playing video games. However, if he is in his 20s or older and spends a lot of time playing video games, he is definitely a loser who rarely gets laid or who only gets with hideous beasts.

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    • weirdgiraffekid

      I love how most of the time when someone says "definitely" on the internet, it's either an absolute non-fact or they spelled it as "defiantly".

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    • Like I said the older the person the more of a loser. If you're over 40 you may have a problem...

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