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Is it normal that i am a 30 year old woman (still live with my parents ,as in my country we can live with our parents till we get married , no matter how old we are ) and my parents , especially mother treats me like a child , my dad too , but my mother more , and i LOVE IT ?!
Im not very close to my mum and i dislike when i see other people with, what i describe as a: way to close mother-daughter relationship. But that's just me.
If you grew up that way, who are we to say it's wrong or not "normal"
30 yr old. mid asian man, Virgin, and child. I really can't say shit. I'm 19, in college, live with my grandparents and still in diapers. XD
I can't speak much on this because we come from different cultures. I would say that there is no problem with your parents taking care of you as long as you pull your weight around the house in some way.
Interesting. It's none of my business but what country are you from? I didn't answer the is it normal question because in the United States it's not considered normal but with the current depressed economy and high levels of unemployment it's becoming increasingly more normal to live with your parents. I do think it's understandable to enjoy being pampered. When I was a kid I was always jealous of my younger sister and now when I spend time with my parents as an adult alone without my younger sister I really enjoy myself. I think the part of me inside that is still a small child(my inner child) gets a lot of comfort from having my parents to myself. They don't necessarily treat me like a child but my mom makes dinner and she's a pretty good cook. Also I came over a couple of weeks ago and gave her a manicure and pedicure. Another thing I like is I drink rum and cokes with my parents and we watch documentaries on their big screen tv. I brought them some steaks a few months ago and I think I'd like to do something nice like that again soon here. But I don't think it would be as nice as it has been if I actually lived with them. I think we would get on each other's nerves. But if it's normal to live at home into adulthood in your culture that's a different thing. Maybe you just like being pampered and babied more than most people do? I guess it's okay as long as you do things to show your parents you appreciate them. I would say also if you're not taking advantage of them, letting them run your life or allowing your situation to adversely affect any educational or career ambitions you have for yourself then it's okay.