Is it normal for true hindu girls prefer muslim men to hindu men
I have been observing that there is an increasing trend of mixed marraiges amongst Hindus and Muslims, which by itself is a good trend. However it is disturbing to find there are large number of Hindu girls marrying and dating Muslim men, whereas there are only a only a small number of ( almost nil) Muslim girls marrying or dating Hindu guys. This situation is further worsened by accompanyment of any number internet sites claiming that the Hindu girls are consciously prefering or attracted to Muslim men almost as if they are de-selecting Hindu guys.A small private enquiry amongst friends relatives and collegues elicited following response which confused me further:-
1. There is no conscious deselection on part of Hindu gisls of Hindu men
2. However Muslim men are more attractive and handsome.Although as good;looks cannot be sole cause for marrying or dating as some girls put it.
3. Muslim boys especially from North have "Tehzeeb" which attracts the girls.
4. Muslims have started a love Jihad to attract Hindu girls and convert them
Hence i was confused and could not sort out the negative feelings about the whole thing. Although i would be glad with anything that brings the two communities together on equal footing.
Hence i submit the following questions to the forum
1.Do Hindu Girls prefer Muslim guys to Hindu Guys ?
2. What are the reasons for the phenomena of large no. of Hindu Girls marrying and dating Muslim guys with very few almost nil Muslim girls marrying or dating Hindu guys.