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Okay im a young bi male only the people ive been with and a couple of friends now this, i've been with 2 girl and 6 boys sexually. All the boys except 2 still say that they are straight, yet they still flirt with me or try to be with me and etc. BUT they still call themselves "Straight". is it normal and if so why??
I have a gay friend who says that nearly everyone he sleeps with declares themselves "straight". Perhaps sexuality really isn't about the gender you have sex with, but about the gender you love. They should call it loveuality.
Every man is gay if you think about it. You dont have any girls, and just guys left. What do you think is gonna happen? They will get hornier and hornier until they break. I speak from experience because I only like giving/gettin head, and nothing else about a man Id say Im straight i guess. I would probably mess with more dudes if I knew my girl wouldnt freak. Thats my biggest problem.. Hw should i got about it?
If you like sucking dick you are more than 89% gay just my opinion so if you want to be with a guy but are just afraid go for it before you live with that "what if"
being gay is fun lol just saying...
89% gay... really??? maybe he just likes this one thing... people can like oral sex with the same gender and not be forced to call themselves gay. It's just a word that really doesn't describe things very well. I can't help but tell you and everyone on here that there are more kinds of attraction than sexual, and there are varying degrees of sexual attraction. Just because I like boobs and I'm a girl doesn't mean I'm gay. It means... I like boobs... I might not want to actually have sex with a girl. Do you see the difference???
If your girlfriend is fine with you having oral sex with other men, she might be more open to other things. Or she might be more open if you suggest a threesome. Plenty of women like the idea of getting the attention of two men at the same time.
This is a very intelligent response with a new dynamic perspective that I have never seen. Good job.
I agree. My best friend is lesbian and we dated way back. I still flirt with her a little but i know i could never be in a relationship with her or any other woman, though i think about women sexually at times. I used to say that i was half bi or one quarter lesbian. I'm sure i confuse her sometimes and i feel bad about that because she sees it differently than me.
If you like sucking dick and you like pussy who cares just enjoy what you do
im a gay dude lol
and to tell you from expirience
here because the population is majorly hispanics and catholics most guys say theyre straight but have an undercover gay life who we here reffer to as "LowKEY" lol
let them be "STRAIGHT" you do your thing they'll come around if not...on to the next one who really cares?...
if it werent for social standings, 98% of men would be at least bisexual. period.
They're likely in the closet, or they may have been reconsidering or insecure. Calling oneself something does not make it so. I can call myself African, but I'm still going to BE a pasty-pale Anglo-saxon.
Straight guys may still want to experiment sexually. I consider myself straight but I occasionally get the urge to give a blow job. I will do it one day under the right circumstances to satisfy the curiosity but my primary sexual urges are directed towards women.
Enjoy it and help them express their sexual urges.
Maybe they are straight, only they know. I do not feel that a person can be labeled just by their activities. They can,however, be labeled by their preferences.
If you tell your girlfriend that the dress she is wearing that she absolutely thinks is beautiful,looks good on her when you know that it has little to be desired, does that mean that you are a liar or did you just tell a lie? If you know how to change the oil in your vehicle or put on a tire, does that make you a mechanic? If you masturbate in front of a mirror and watch yourself stroking your penis and while doing so, providing that you have the ability to do so, bend down and take your penis in your mouth and start sucking to completion, are you then gay and if not, why not? In that instance you have touched a dick, stroked a dick, sucked a dick and took results of that in your mouth. You have engaged in four activities which are by some peoples definition gay and the fact that it was yours really doesn't make a difference.
People are who they live their lives as and we can only take them as such. A guy grows up his whole life with a penis that he looks at several times a day, touches at least twice a day, strokes it when the mood arises and watches as ejaculate shoots out of it while in a sexually aroused state. They have admired how it looks and enjoyed the way it felt in their hands and have compared it to other penises he has seen. Why then would a guy be disgusted by the sight or even the feel of something that he has had a fascination with his whole life; he wouldn't.
So is it so hard to believe that some people might just see it that way and just indulge in an activity that they have repeated many times throughout their lives, kind of like masturbation with help.
We only know people by what they tell us and want us to know, so most of the people who we know as "straight" maybe, just maybe take part in activities that have been labeled as "gay," however, will be classified as "straight" because that's what they have told us and that is what we've seen. If you asked every straight man if they have ever touched or sucked another man's penis, do you actually think that the ones who have will answer that question truthfully?
So in the whole scheme of things... it really doesn't matter, people are going to be who they are and do what they do. No one has to agree with it or see what someone else does as any of their business.
Remember, "Down Low" is a term given to straight people who have been found to engage in what some consider as "homosexual" activities.
I like to mess with guy, but I'm not attracted to guys. My gf loves to see me give and receive a Bj and anal. It took me a while to consider myself bi, but I only let people know in straight. Of course my gf knows I'm bi tho.
My first lover was a boy about my age. I was about 11 and I really think we were in love and we did a lot of stuff together but no anal. But all my lovers since then have been females and I've never wanted to be with another male again. And I consider myself straight.
It's classic for gay studs who enjoy all the privileges with submissive fairies like myself to call themselves "straight." It is a form of denial, but I don't mind it at all. Let them call themselves what they want. They are right. The truth is, until you take the lover's cock inside you, until you have it in deep and learn to love it, you'll never experience the real thing. The real fairies take it all night and don't really care if the cocksman likes to believe he's straight.
"i've been with 2 girl and 6 boys sexually"
I see a pattern...oh wait, you're gay as fuck.