Is it normal for straight guys to get head from gay guys?
I'm straight, married, in my mid 40's and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but what's your take on the matter? I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it's super convenient, and my wife isn't into sucking me off, so I've got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn't so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It's totally hedonistic. It's all about me and getting the kind of BJ I'm in the mood for, be it a five minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out. Guys are usually pretty practical, low drama creatures, so I've got to imagine that getting quality head on demand would get a lot of guys over the yuck factor.
I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it's all up to me. There's no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I'm not horny, I just don't go. No one's going to call me to ask where I've been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I'm going through a horny phase, I can swing by every day and it's also no big deal. It's just so straight forward! I don't have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown.
Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he's all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don't even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob. I know it probably sounds weird, but it's almost like it's not a sexual experience, it's just one friend doing something for another (that feels fucking amazing). With women, there's something more to it, but that's not the case with guys, at least the guys I picked. It's all about me, and I don't have to feel bad about that.
I had to screen a lot of people on Craigslist to find my first guy (the other just kind of happened), but I swear that for him, sucking dick is kind of like his hobby. I'm absolutely sure that he want's nothing else, he's not looking for romance, or to have me suck him, and if I look down, he;'s not staring at me with google love eyes, he just likes to practice his skills and make me feel good. Both are that way, and I don't think I would have done it otherwise. I wanted a situation were getting blown was no more involved or weird than getting a haircut, and that's what I got.
I thought about this kind of situation nearly all my life because it seemed so practical, and once I finally did it and got used to it, I wish that I would have started earlier.
Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who'll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it's fucking great and I highly recommend it! But is it just me? Thanks.