Is it normal for someone to whisper angry words she would have said to someone?

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My mother is angry with my father and they had a huge argument earlier. He's not at home and now she's whispering the angry words she would have said to him if he were to HERSELF. It's very scary and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Also, among the worsts she whispers in passionate anger to herself are profanity. She's slightly OCD (she has the rituals and all) and lives in the past, and in my opinion a lot of the time is quick to make judgement based on what happens in her mind. I feel really uncomfortable when she does it? She thinks nobody's hearing, but I do. Once I actually SAW her doing it and she even had the angry belligerent look in her eye. PLEASE if anyone had friends/family who does this to, PLEASE share. I want to know how common this is.

Strangely when she does it, I feel this kind of repressed anger. I can't stand it at all... And I want to punch the wall. Not because of what is being said, but simply due to the fact that she's doing it at all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    shes letting off steam like a pressure cooker, its normal you need yr own space , is mother kind to u does she do things for you and deep down u know she loves u, ? if yes to any one ..be thankful....if yes to all pampered pooch hahahaha^^^ lol

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  • sissycakes
    11 years ago

    i do this myself, so i believe it is completely normal.

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  • belbel000
    12 years ago

    its normal, I do it al the time. Usually I keep my anger in so that the only way I can express it without hurting myself.

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  • Kutieadb
    12 years ago

    I do that, but in my head, just like a mock fight. It's much better than saying in the heat of the moment. Worry about yourself and let this petty anger at her go.

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    How do you deal with your own anger?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well atleast she doesnt yell at herself! When my mom gets angry she'll yell to herself and it's so annoying!!! Even with the door shut you can hear it!

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