Is it normal for someone to leave you since they found out you watched porn?

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I was dating this lady and she found out I watched porn. Well long story short this ended the whole relationship. I told her sorry many times but they did not forgive me. Is it normal they would get mad over this? It was just regular girl on boy kind. Yet they said that was unacceptable. They after this told me what sort of porn I should be watching. I felt like a screw up after this. I still did not understand it.

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Terence_the_viking

11 years ago

That seems a bit extreme. She was probably looking to end it anyway but then found your watching porn as the perfect excuse.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Well thank you for that. That makes me feel a lot better. I always blamed myself for ruining the relationship.
  
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prasatko

11 years ago

No, it is not normal that she left you because of the fact that you watched porn. You do not have to feel guilty about it and you had nothing to apologise for. She must be strange when it comes to sexual attitudes...I mean, if she is able to leave you because you watched porn, her attitude to sex / sexual desire etc must be quite "hostile" and sooner or later she would probably turn out to be a dead fish in bed anyway... Not necessarily, that´s just my guess and unfounded speculation. But as a matter of fact I think that ending a relationship because of something that the other person watches is really stupid. And above all, there is no need for you to feel guilty.

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kelili

11 years ago

Maybe she felt that she was not enough for you and you were compensating with porn. Anyway she should have given you another chance or maybe there are other things that were bugging her in the ralationship and this was like the catalyst.

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ccjigsaw

11 years ago

As a girl who won't date a guy who looks at porn, I could give you some insight maybe. Haters no hating!!! I will date a guy if he will stop looking at it for me. I don't like having to be around a guy who's always looking at other women though. Sure what ever, it's normal blah blah blah, say what you will. But I don't see it as normal. It's not a life necessity, and I think it's 100% okay for a girl to dislike the one she loves to be jerking off over other chicks. If I was dating a guy, and found out he was wanking over porn, I would ask if he would stop as long as he's in a realtionship with me. If he agreed, then I would be fine. If he did it even though he said he wouldn't, I would feel like he sees it as more important than me and I would break up with thim. I mean, some people wont date someone else because they smoke, or don't wnat kids. Why not cause they look at porn, right? That's my view anyways

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  They never asked. They simply asked what kind and after broke up and nothing I could do to change their mind. They after told me what kind I should be watching. However said the relationship was already over and nothing could change that.
  
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  - ccjigsaw
    
    11 years ago
    
    Some people are more sensitive than others. I think most people won't care, but some do. You'll find someone who doesn't care, it's common these days.
    
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dirtybirdy

11 years ago

Umm what do you mean "it was just regular boy on girl kind." Kids??

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  As in I was not watching gay porn. Yes kiddy porn was not on my list of porn either.
  
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