Is it normal for someone to be "too perfect"?

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I love my boyfriend and will never leave him but he is actually too perfect. When I do something wrong or I'm stressed out and raise my voice at him, he apologizes to me. When he's in the mood for Chinese food and I'm in the mood for pizza, he gets us pizza even when he was basically drooling over the thought of eating Chinese. When we're in a store and I want to quickly grab something, he automatically holds my purse for me. When I can't find something in my bag, he'll look for me. When I'm upset about something, he'll immediately rush over and bring me my favorite food or flowers. When I am low on cash and we're out shopping, he'll buy whatever it is for me. When I can't find my favorite pair of shoes and blame him, he grabs me and hugs me.

IIN?

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Based on 42 votes (20 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    In my language the word you're looking for is "doormat", not "perfect"...

    Just reading this made me feel neutered.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Just because he does everything perfectly?

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        If you view someone letting you walk all over them and having no integrity, then that says a lot about you.

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  • Stifler
    9 years ago

    He is either going to rape you soon...

    Or he is a fucking doormat and you are just being a jerk.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    OP is a jerk and doesn't realize it.

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  • craze3
    9 years ago

    This sounds a lot like my boyfriend, except to the extent of ridiculousness. But my boyfriend is kind to everybody, not just me. He does a lot of the same things though, like buying me soup when I'm even slightly ill and generally taking really good care of me. But yeah I've wondered the same thing, if he's too perfect, though I just see it as a good thing because it encourages me to treat people better too.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You'll get tired of perfection soon enough. Most women like jerks because they are better in bed. Now be a good little whore and go to sleep.

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  • imadragon
    9 years ago

    He doesn't have any unique opinions does he?

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  • alextsang08
    9 years ago

    He sounds nice, or a suck up.

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  • thr
    9 years ago

    Is this a problem or no?

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    "When I do something wrong [...] he apologizes to me."

    Yeah. A perfect man.

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  • megababe
    9 years ago

    Awww your bf sounds sweet but maybe a little too nice lol you should treat him how he treats you. And don't blame him for things or take out your frustrations on him - that's not nice.

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