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Like to have a friend who say they dont care, and they wont tell anyone and you know for years. Yet suddenly decided to out you and be a fucking bitch about it and say your wrong. When they seemingly never cared before? How do you deal with it? When in fact they are hiding the same secret now?
I know I'm not English. I know my English isn't bad.
So why can't I figure out this cryptic mofo post, WHY?!
If I understand this correctly , you told a secret about something sexual to a "friend" they now gave up your secret and holds the same one? It was unclear the way you typed this up but if this is the case .. not normal but is common for people to do unfortunately . They cant keep secrets safe :(
Yes, they have the same secret and now they are trying to out me but we have the same damn secret. So either one of us could out the other one but the other one has dirt and they know I have dirt. Yet they continue talking shit about me. Judging me saying how wrong I am for having this secret when they are doing the same damn thing. Its just like WTF?
Ok... this is stupid and friendship shouldn't come to this, BUT:
If she/he hasn't told your secret yet, you should remind them that you have their secret too and won't keep it if they won't keep yours.
You should try to talk this through, but if it gets to the point where you need to, I would use their secret to keep them quite about mine...
"they are hiding the same secret now" - Well that explains their outing you as a way of drawing attention away from themselves etc.
I don't really know what to tell you, other than to stop associating with this person. They've obviously got problems of their own, and are using you as a scapegoat for their own internal head-mess. Don't expect anything good from this person and just stay away.
IIN? Nope, that person is a bad person.
I'm slightly confused about your use of the word 'friend' to describe this person.
If someone was this untrustworthy and despicable, I couldn't see them as a friend.