Is it normal for relationship to be soo complicated ????

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my bf and i have been together on and off for 10yrs, he cheated on me and i cant forget it !! i make him pay every minutes of his life ! everybody told me to leave him because he might hurt me again, but he says he will never do it again. we are really in love, i 4 times refuses his marriage proposals because our families doesnt approve and i put them first, as my family pick up the pieces when he cheated on me. we both want to make it work ! is it normal ???????

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    every rel. is fucked.

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  • unknown420
    13 years ago

    Coming from a person that is in a complicated relationship herself. I knownits hard to let go of someone you love. Everybody tells me I deserve better. Yada yada yada but emotions get the best of you. I think that if he's truley heated on you that many times, you should leave him. I myself don't believe my bf has cheated on me... but if he did, we would be history. It's one of the hardest things you will ever do.

    Good luck :)!

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  • 1985
    13 years ago

    IDK, the relationship should't be that much work. usually if it's meant to be it goes smoothly

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  • b454
    13 years ago

    You shouldn't have to try to make it work. Obviously its not really working. Move on. You've already wasted 10 years! I'm sure you could find someone else who would not cheat. And dumping his ass would be a good way to make him pa y

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    If he did it once, he will do it again.

    Beware of diseases and a broken heart.

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  • fullmetaljo
    13 years ago

    this couldn't be considered within the norm. its hard to establish what true love is, that's a story you write yourself. however putting up with his crap is doing neither of you a favor, and if he proposed to you four times and you denied him every time he should take a hint.

    perhaps you two need to talk about this relationship a little more because if you're dating on and off that's unhealthy, especially if he went outside his relationship. rushing a marriage in all of this will just end in disaster.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    if he truly loved you then he wouldnt have slept with another woman. its up to the both of you if you want to make it work. if you really want to stay with him but cant forgive and forget then maybe go and see a psychologist together to try to work it out. personally, i think you should find another guy to be with.

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