Is it normal for parents to disown their kids if the kids are lgbt?

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I am a guy and I am writing this to ask if I should finally let my parents know about my true identity

They have always wanted grand children from me and kept telling me they expect me to get settled down but the problem is although I feel romantic attraction towards women I don't find them sexually appealing I can't force a change in myself and to add to that I actually like dicks which just means one thing I cannot settle down with a woman nor have kids

I tried to tell them at first that I can't have children and I'm not able to take responsibility (I didn't tell them I like men sexually) however they quickly figured out something is wrong after a while of me refusing them

They asked me why I keep refusing and all but I'm not sure if I can tell them

What do I say? That I don't like vagina but dicks? I have repressed my urges for far too long and I am sure as soon as given chance with a man alone I'll drop my pants and bend over with no hesitation, How do I let them know that this is who I am? I'm afraid they'll disown me or I might even be shunned by the community in general

Is it normal for parents to disown their children upon discovering they are not heterosexual?

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Based on 12 votes (7 yes)
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  • ellnell
    2 years ago

    Unfortunately it still is but usually these parents are very religious or has already voiced homophobic views so you would most likely know if that's a risk you're taking by telling them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      It is so sad that they care more about what makes them look better rather than their own son's thoughts

      They just can't accept that their son is happy to drop his pants and bend over for another man

      What advice would you give for me to let them know I have no intention of giving up on who I am? I am ok with them knowing I have no attraction to vagina (which makes it impossible for them to have grandkids) and instead I'm satisfied with a penis instead

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Yes its normal. Hopefully you'll grow out of it. If not they'll eventually get over it. It will hurt much more if you are one of those girly guys tho that talks with that exaturated lisp.

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