Is it normal for my husband to never be jealous when i talk to other guys?

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I have 3 guy friends who I talk to online on a regular basis. I've been talking to one of the guys for a year and a half and the others for about 4-6 years I feel like I talk to them more than my husband. I have asked him what he feels about me talking to them and he says he doesn't care and he's not the type to get jealous.

I talked to one of my guy friends over video chat a few times. One time I fibbed and told him I flashed my friend. He chuckled and said that was cool.

All of my girlfriend's boyfriends/fiance's/husband's seem irritated when they talk to other men or men talk to them. If we are out and about at a bar and a man talks to me, he acts like it does not bother him whatsoever. I sometimes think it's because he thinks no other men want me so he doesn't have to worry.

He thinks jealousy is childish 10
He's lying when he says he it does not bother him at all 7
He hopes you will find someone else and leave 6
He thinks no other guys will want you 1
He trusts you 27
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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

    STOP STOP STOP

    I have seen this before, the fact he doesn't get jealous does not automatically mean he doesn't think another guy would want you. I have seen relationships get ruined when girlfriends think this.
    LISTEN!!!

    This could mean several things including but not limited to the flowing.
    1. He trusts you so much that it never occurs to him to be jealous because he knows you'll always be faithful.
    2. He is supremely jealous but hides it be cause he's afraid you'll think less of him for it(seen this one before.)
    3. He thinks so highly of you that he doesn't perceive any of these guys as being good enough for you so he doesn't perceive them as a threat.
    4. A lot of people get stressed and sometimes feel trapped in relationships, maybe he sees this as your way of getting a little freedom without going too far and he's afraid if he stops you, you'll resent him and go further in secret.

    Please TALK TO HIM, I have seen relationships ruined because the girl thought her boyfriend didn't care because of stuff like this.

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    • Couman
      7 years ago

      5. Secret cuckold fetish.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        7 years ago

        I had to Google cuckold fetish. That sounds very interesting but I highly doubt that's the case. If I do find out it is, you guys will be the first ones to know!

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      • Adopt-a-thot
        7 years ago

        Onision

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      • MR.mr
        7 years ago

        possible

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    • Baldie
      7 years ago

      Very wise words here...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thank you for clearing this up and knocking some sense into me. I appreciate it!

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      • MR.mr
        7 years ago

        you're welcome, never forget no matter how long you know someone, it's still difficult to truly ''know'' them. This is why you must never stop talking to them. Cliche as it may sounds it's true, communication is key.

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  • misslonglegs
    7 years ago

    My mum has a few make friends from work a still in contact with some from school from the 70sand80s dad is fine about it always says why worry she married me and I trust her totally

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  • Baldie
    7 years ago

    Maybe he's feeling guilty about his own affairs? Just a thought too.

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  • GamerVoice
    7 years ago

    Don't talk to other guys.

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