Is it normal for my husband to get upset if a guy gave me a massage?

This isn't normal behavior for him.

Its kinda like a Dr. who performs an exam or other medical service. They are professional.

I can understand why your husband got upset; but, in my opinion he needs to grow up.

As it was a professional masseuse I’d say he’s over-reacting.

If you had told him the masseur was hot and the massage turned you on, or if you had come home from the spa and immediately jumped on your husband and you'd bonked like bunnies, then I could understand him being concerned about what happened.

Assuming nothing like that happened, then it sounds to me like he's very insecure and proprietorial. I also wonder if he believes that massage therapists only call themselves that because it's more socially acceptable than 'prostitute'.

It's not a huge step from his attitude to that of fanatical Muslim men who insist that their wives remain completely covered in a tent and sitting on the other side of the room if they ever need to consult a male doctor.

Your husband is jealous that another guy "gave" you pleasure. You should have said you went to a masseuse and had to pay for a massage. If you go to a "professional" then he shouldnt be upset. Just change your story up next time.

Just use a female one. It will put his mind at ease.

Guys dont like other guys touching "their" women. It's as simple as that. I would be uncomfortable with that scenario unless it was a couples massage. Its unnerving to have another man touch your girlfriend/wife and even though we know it's just a massage and nothing more we still get uncomfortable with that aspect.

Either get a female masseuse or get a couple's massage with him so you can have one together.

My wife loves massages professional ones and private ones. She has had a guy who was sexy and better hands to sooth her muscles. I massage her and always give a happy ending with a clit massage or cunnilingus. She has done the same for me giving me a happy ending suck or pushing a dildo up my ass and jacking me off. When I was single I met a guy massage therapist at the club who Took me into the private room gave me an erotic massage getting me quite hard. He rolled me over snapped on a rubber glove and gave me a deep prostate massage making me beg for more. He already rolled a condom over his big cock inviting me to bend over the back of the table. He rolled a condom over my cock to avoid a mess then without hesitation impaled me on his cock. This was the best part of the massage as his cock massaged my prostate as he fucked me. I came in the condom so he stopped pulled out leaving me wiggling my ass writhing in the table. The massage was expensive but erotically worth it. People should be open to all types of massages!

Not normal, I’d get turned on if another man massaged my wife

I would love my wife to come home and tell me that story. I wouldn't have a problem with her getting a massage while only wearing a thong. Hopefully it would be a frontal massage also.

I've had both kinds of masseurs' and like them both. Unlike the husband in the OP, if my husband had his way, I'd only get messages from males. I just get the one that I feel like in that moment. Guys are better for going deeper and harder and getting the knots out of my muscles. Girls are normally better for lighter messages like when I really just want to feel pampered.

look, nobody knows why I threw him out of that window except me and him.

I had suggested massages to my boyfriend just as a treat for ourselves. Due to the corona, they’re not doing “couples massages”. My bf was so put off at the idea of him getting a massage from a dude. And then the idea of me being in a private room naked with a guy rubbing me was even worse. The thing is, he didn’t even think about guys being a masseuse!

Your dude has no reason to be shitty over it. But I can also see that he wouldn’t want another dude putting hands on you. 🤷🏾‍♀️