Is it normal for my fiancé to act this way?
So I’ve just recently moved in with my fiancé and his parents. I love his mom, she’s wonderful but his dad is a different story... his dad has cameras around the house! I stay home during the day some days as rn I’m only working part time but I’m the only one at the house besides dogs. And I’m so sick and tired of my every movement and every breath to be recorded. Our dog cannot even walk around the house bc he doesn’t like it when she does and I can’t even let her sneakily play outside our room bc he will throw a bitch fit about it. And I’ve recently started to hide my food in our room bc everyone else always eats everything I buy before I can. And the things I like they don’t keep stocked up. But the killer part is that my fiancé doesn’t want to move out. He says he doesn’t want to move into an apartment or a rent house bc that’s just a waste of money. He doesn’t want to live in a trailer bc “they lose their value as soon as you pull them off the lot.” I told him that if we got a trailer our main worry would be to find some land to put it on and they make beautiful trailers now! But nope. He says he doesn’t want to move out bc he already has so many bills and he doesn’t think we can do it and he doesn’t want us to rush into moving out just to end up broke and not have any money to do anything. I really want to move out but idk what to do...
( I also forgot to mention, my fiancé is 19 and has his own job and his own vehicle, he makes his own money but yet he still has to ask his dad to let him go somewhere. He’s lucky if his dad even lets him stay the night at his big brothers for 2 nights in a row. And when we do stay over we have to be home at the damn crack of dawn bc his daddy says so. It’s so ridiculous! He can’t even ride to town passed a certain time bc his dad doesn’t like it. His dad is a control freak and I can’t stand feeling like I’m trapped)