Is it normal for my father to treat me like this?

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My father doesnt let me go to parties, doesn't let me put on make up, he calls me a b.tch and always compares me to a prostitute, he is physically and verbally abusive to my mother and I, he spitted on me once because i went to see my friend without telling him, last week i showed him my new pair of jeans that were ripped on the knee level and he tore them apart.. I know i'm a good girl and i don't deserve this and that's what made me cut myself. When my mom talks to him about it he says he only does that because he loves me. He can't be normal can he?

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Based on 95 votes (15 yes)
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  • Faceless
    9 years ago

    Murder him before he honor kills you.

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  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    Talk to a school counselor or a teacher, tell a friend's mom or dad, move in with another family member-- or go to the police. This is CHILD ABUSE.

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  • LizardSkin
    9 years ago

    Sorry you're going through that hun.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    He's the bitch. Abusive bag of shit. I urge you to tell someone about what he does. He is abusive the both of you and it is neither morally right or legal. It would constitute as child abuse and domestic abuse in the eyes of the law.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    How old are you? Can you move out? He sounds like a dick head as well as abusive. I'm wondering if he is on drugs. Not normal.

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  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago

    He sounds a bit loony

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    Its serious child abuse. Take palepunks advice.

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  • Morgan_Freeman
    9 years ago

    you need to get away from dat crazy shit.

    Narrated by Morgan Freeman.

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  • ballchan
    9 years ago

    your father is clever.

    seems he knows that a successful man
    won't/can't get marry with a whore.

    keep the virgin = keep the value.
    you got the value = you have the ticket

    ticket + right timing = knock on a big door.

    that's gonna be the same way I treat my daughter
    in the future.

    the different is i can easily make her understand
    how to being smart.

    this act is for ensuring she won't get lose
    on any poor fuck that may ruin the future/family .

    so that the boys they bring up be sure can
    provided a great help on any type of my business .

    of cause different person = different situation.

    just try not to be a dump , little poor one .

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  • Valentine<3
    9 years ago

    1.not normal
    2.cutting yourself is useless
    3.step up to him
    4.tell your school
    5.it depends on your age

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  • ladygee2
    9 years ago

    No way in hell is that normal. Tell someone about it. He doesn't understand how bad that can affect you.. He thinks he's helping you but all he's doing is lowering your self esteem..

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  • Imnotembarrased
    9 years ago

    It's normal minus the physical abuse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    no more talkies..he is the enemy

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Does your father abuse drugs and alcohol?

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