Is it normal for my ex-wife to be messaging my new gf with warnings

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My ex-wife of 2 years is still consumed with hate and anger. At times she'll pretend to be conciliatory IF she wants something but if her selfishness is not complied with she explodes in anger.

Her explosion are quite regular (fortnightly) and are manifested through screaming abuse when she drops our children off, messages in Viber (I've deleted her from fb long time ago) or telling my business associates/friends lies about me.

This morning my new gf (of 1 year) received a "warning message" in Facebook giving her advice and accusing me of things already disproven in long messy court cases. It's a new low... but still pi$$es me off because it's time to move on.

When we split she threatened to "destroy" me... And her continued attempts make me wonder if it's normal or not.

Do I continue to try to ignore?

Do I respond to her?

Do I seek out legal recourse (if any is available - I'm in Australia)?

Is this normal when divorcing a Russian woman?

Yes it's normal but you can't do anything about 5
Yes it's normal but you should take action to stop it 3
No it's not normal but you can't do anything about it 0
No it's not normal but you should take action to stop it 10
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago

    You should probably seek out legal recourse. This is considered harassment and it should not be tolerated.

    Also, I do not feel like her being Russian has that much to do with it. She just seems like she's fucking crazy and probably actually mentally ill.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    It's abnormal and dangerous. You're being stalked and harassed.

    Her being Russian has nothing to do with it; crazy knows no bounds.

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    • 53739
      8 years ago

      Russian people are usually pretty crazy though.

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    mine sends viruses to my old gfs.

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  • donuthell45
    8 years ago

    Have a third person pick up the kids so you don't have to be in direct contact with her so much. I am sure your children don't like the drama everytime they switch houses.

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