Is it normal for my dad to keep mentioning my towel slip

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Hi, my Dad is a loving Father right. But recently I tripped on my long towel as i came out from the bathroom after showering and it came down leaving me naked and my Dad was in the hallway at the time and saw EVERYTHING. I quickly gathered up my towel, covered up and rushed into my bedroom.
I then threw The towel down on the Bed in annoyance and embarrassment at flashing to my Dad and seconds later he just opened the bedroom door and walked in and asked if I was okay while just staring at my tits. i was so surprised that it was a couple of second before I dragged the towel back off the bed and covered up again.
He then apologist for coming in without knocking and backed out of the room.
Firstly he NEVER comes in my room without knocking and also he keeps mentioning it and wanting to talk about it, even though he knows i'm really embarrassed about it. Is that normal or is he just being a good dad. One thing though, i'm really uncomfortable at how he looked at me when he came in my room.
But again, he's an amazing Dad. i'm seventeen and living at home.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    What man wouldn't look at a naked young attractive 17 year old female, daughter or not. I'm sure there is nothing in it and he will be as embarrast as you are about the situation but seeing his you daughter maturing into a beautiful woman will have set his pulses racing and making him proud at the same time.

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    We've always enjoyed our time together.He takes me down to a small lake in some woods not far from our house and i might suggest to him that we go there together for a swim. I might go topless and see what he says!! lol

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    Try to maybe not be so up-tight about nudity around him and accept that he may see me now as a woman and not just his little girl and maybe just take his interest in my body as a compliment?

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  • charlie92
    7 years ago

    Do you really think that he was turned on by seeing me naked? Because that's an important issue for me because of something that happened the next day. I'm really a Daddy's girl and I dont want him to see me in any other way, not sexually and I think there is a chance that he might have changed how he sees me.

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    Honest talk.
    Your dad was probably turned on NO i'm not saying he would ever touch you but that doesn't mean he wasn't attracted.

    He's probably not trying to be intentionally pervy but he probably was turned on by the incident. Daughter or no you're a young 17 year old girl he saw naked.
    Again if he is a good dad like you said I'm sure he'll never do anything but... we'll men get turned on by what turns us on sorry.

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    I felt it at first. He was in sports shorts so It sprang up when I moved off him. i tried not to look but it was obvious.
    As I've said, I dont blame him. I was testing him which wasn't really fair on my part.

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    He did get an erection the other day when i sat on his lap with just a towel on after my bath, but I was sort o seeing if he would react to having me close like that after seeing me naked, so giving him a hard on was my fault.
    we have spent a lot of time together, There is a favorite place he takes me, a small wood and a lake not far from the back of the house where we swim and we sometimes spend ages there with a picnic.So yes ne devotes time to me.

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  • charlie92
    7 years ago

    I've always wanted attention from my dad, like I said I'm a real Daddy's girl and I have thought about what you said about me inviting attention and I suppose that before the towel drop thing, i have wanted him to notice me more and maybe I have been getting too physically close and maybe too touchy over the last couple of years and I suppose that it's encouraged him to be touchy too and I think that might be why he reacted like he did.
    I don't want to see him naked, of course not

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  • charlie92
    7 years ago

    Okay, Ok, I’m a bit on edge about this whole thing but, I woke up the next day and my dad was sitting beside me on my bed. I was facing him and he said something like “Wake up sleepy head, I thought you might get up early” Something like that anyway, I was half asleep.
    He got up and as he walked out, he said that he had brought me coffee. He’s never done that before. I didn’t think much of it but as I made to get back under the covers, i noticed that the top that I wear in bed, was ridden up and showing the underside of my breasts.
    I admit that my top does ride up sometimes while I’m sleeping and I’m not saying that my Dad lifted my top up or that he touched my breasts while I was asleep, I really don’t think that he’d do that but he could have pulled it down when he saw it was like that. I think that before if he had come in to wake me up, he would have pulled it down for me or just backed out. And the coffee he brought me was cold, so how long had he been sitting there? And why did this happen the very next day people on the posting said he’d be turned on, so?
    There was something he said a couple of days later as well that was out of character as well.

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    • MR.mr
      7 years ago

      ok now there's some red flags.

      I posted before that he was probably turned on but I didn't think much of it as long as he didn't act on it but now there's some issues.

      Ok 2 import things, sorry I know its hard to do both because they work against each other.
      1- Be careful things don't escalate, just be careful
      2- Try not to see everything as sexual as its on your mind you might mistake innocent behavior for wrong doing.

      Try to slightly distance yourself and hide more skin than usual for a week or two, avoid any situation you can that could be perceived as sexual for a while and hopefully it will calm down.

      Sorry it's not much but that's the best advice I have.

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      • charlie92
        7 years ago

        To Mr.mr
        You sound really lovely and thank you so much for the advice but when you say 'Careful things don't escalate' are you saying what I think yore saying?
        And by red flags, do you mean to say that you think that he might of done something when i was asleep, I just dont think he would.

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        • MR.mr
          7 years ago

          I don't know if he touched you in your sleep or not but by red flags I mean that there are some warning signs. Those signs don't ''prove'' anything is going to happen but they are worth paying attention to Because if something is wrong you'll notice more and more of them.

          By escalate yah I pretty much mean what you think, things could get steadily worse and creepier, I don't know if he'll ever go as far as trying to fuck you but there very well could be some touching and deliberate peeping if things do escalate. Just becareful and watch for signs, if you don't things can get out of hand before you realize, it reminds me of the clock analogy, it's like the hour hand on a clock you never really see it move but it does.

          Also if he drinks, don't go near him for at least a month, if something is wrong while drunk he could be more aggressive and even if he's just had a little he could use it as an excuse to play grab ass.

          I hope that all this is one big mistake and wish you the best, but becareful and watch for warning signs just in case.

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          • charlie92
            7 years ago

            After the way he looked at me when he walked in on me and how my top was so far up when he woke me. its as if I feel I don't trust him any more. All the warning sighs you talk about...if I think about how my Dad was with me before he saw me naked, we always cuddled up the sofa or he would tickle me under my top when we wrestled or I'd sit at his feet in a nighty after my bath and he would massage my shoulders

            All these things are perfectly innocent, or at least i think they are and yet they could now be seen as the red flags you mentioned.

            i want to carry on the same as before but now the compliment on my figure and my looks feel like they mean more. They come with that look, they feel like the comments from a regular guy who's trying to hit on me instead of a dad trying to make his daughter feel good.

            I'm confused.

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            • MR.mr
              7 years ago

              I'm sorry for the confusion, it's hard to give advice on this because it can be difficult to discern between whats innocent and what's not.

              I was thinking earlier about how some of the issues you described could be misinterpreted. Like the coffee could've been cold because he brought it and tried to wake you but you didn't wake so he left and came back later, which means he might've not been waiting and therefore if he just came and went quickly he might not have even noticed your top.

              But what you said about it being unusual behavior for him to do that does raise questions.

              I know I'm confusing you more and I appologize for it. I'm just trying to make sure you stay alert but also don't let innocent behavior affect your relationship with your dad.

              Like I said it's difficult to discern, just keep a look out and if he does something you deem inappropriate, if your not sure it was meant to b that way, simply say you don't like it and ask him to stop, hopefully it won't escalate past that.

              good luck

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  • edwininthematrix
    7 years ago

    he saw you were embarrassed and wants to make sure you're okay about it now, I am pretty sure the last thing he wants is for you to feel uncomfortable.

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  • charlie92
    7 years ago

    What you seem to be saying is that I WANTED him to see me naked and i want his attention sex wise and that I want our relationship to be sexual but that's not true. I like the comfort of being against him, like when I sit in his lap and get cuddles or his touch when he massages my back and shoulders after my bath but that doesn't mean that i want him to lust after me.

    Also, i couldn't ask him f he liked seeing me naked and anyway, from the way he stared that was obvious.

    i realize that i'm not a little girl anymore but i think that as a daughter, i want to be physical and even sensual with him, without thinking that I am turning him on and him then wanting to touch me Like I'm sure he did when i was in bed or to get an erection when I'm in his lap.

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    • JonathanOo
      7 years ago

      Has he gotten them when you were on his lap before? It's possible he feels very connected to you and what happened made him desire something more. If so you need to reset the boundaries and expectations. Otherwise he may look at you differently than before. It's possible you look like a younger version of your mother too. It could stir his affection

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  • submissive76
    6 years ago

    I see absolutely nothing wrong with it your dad feels a connection with you and deep down inside you feel that same connection you already said he's a amazing dad then as long as you keep that feeling and enjoy that connection between you and your dad you'll be ok

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  • Takuto
    6 years ago

    Tell him to back. The. Fuck. Up.

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    When I was on his lap, he was hard enough to make me wriggle to get comfortable and then when I got up, I sprang up from the side, not vertical because his shorts were in the way but sort of tent post like! He put his arm across his lap and I went out.

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  • justlooking1976
    6 years ago

    Shame you're so prudish around your loving dad. If anyone has a problem in this, it's you. The lack of natural nudity at home around your dad created this awkward situation in the first place! Going completely nude around him as often as possible is the only chance you will ever have to get your 'old dad' back as fast as possible, assuming he's actually changed in any way! No idea why you should want that though. Stop living in fear and being so controlling in general!

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    • Lisajane1
      6 years ago

      Okay, thanks I'll try no to be.

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  • charlie92
    7 years ago

    It didnt happen in the past, I'm sure it didnt. I didnt move about or anything. Maybe i'm just being silly and setting him up to fail. Like I said, I will try to avoid that sort of contact for a while.

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