Is it normal for my boyfriend to rather watch porn then have sex with me?

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So my boyfriend is 25 and im 21 and We have been together for 3 1/2 years. We used to have sex all the time when we first started dating, which i understand because its new and exciting. But now we have sex like once every 2 weeks. Sometimes i use his internet on his phone and its all porn and i get soo mad at him that i dont even want him to touch me or even try to have sex. Im not ugly or fat so i dont know why he would rather jack off to porn then have sex with me but it pisses me off to the point i want to leave him. Is this normal?

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    maybe try to watch porn with him. I had a similiar issue with my man and that helped us.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    First of all, even though I haven't had any experience with such a low amount of sex per week, it's quite common and I hear it quite often.
    Second, ignore the insults above, they're all judgemental simplistic close-minded douchebags.

    Moving on,
    maybe because he finds that the sex with you has become repeatative, thus he seeks out other things, extreme things perhaps.

    You have a couple of options.
    You could either accept the fact that you barely have sex, or you could propose more exciting things to him.
    New things, things you both haven't tried yet, or something which you aren't doing now.
    Try to find out if he has a fetish.
    How, you ask? Just... ask. (:

    Also, you could try watching porn together with him.
    Something you'd both like seeing, and don't be shocked if he likes to see degrading or extreme things.
    Preference in pornography varies, and if it's extreme, it doesn't always mean they want to do that with you, although you could always ask.

    It never hurts to experiment, and if you don't like it, then well, you do something else.

    Goodluck little lady,
    AlexAwesome.

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Maybe he would like to see you in porn?

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    what a dick

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  • IAMAFUCKINGPSYCHO
    13 years ago

    What an asshat.

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  • honeybeee
    13 years ago

    Break up he is a assface

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    ^ this. Move on.

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