Is it normal for my boyfriend to break up with me because i flirt?

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My ex boyfriend thought I was a big flirt. I do enjoy meeting all kinds of men, and they seem very attracted to me and interested in me. I enjoy the attention and fun. I admit I have had some long term crushes with other men while I was with my boyfriend. I thought about what it would be like to be with them, and tried to get to know them better.

I still loved my boyfriend, but he believed I was always looking for someone else.

Is this normal? Or did my boyfriend over react?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Whenever a girl complains that her guy is always looking at other girls, it's quite obvious that he is disrespecting her and cares little for her feelings. Why do you think you are any different?
    I'd have dumped you too. When you finally find a guy you want to be with enough to respect his feelings and give him your undivided attention when you two are out together, I believe you will actually understand what love is.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Good for him!

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    I would have too! How do you think it made him feel seeing you flirt with all those other guys? How many sleepless nights do you think you've put him though wondering if your cheating on him? What would you have done if he did the same thing to other women? Horrible and insecure.

    When your with someone your supposed to commit to them, that's the whole point of being together, otherwise your just a couple of fuck-buddies.

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  • D.O.C
    8 years ago

    go back to your bf and apologize and limit your flirtatious

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    Stay single if you want to flirt. You deserved to be dumped and you even said you were sort of looking for someone better.
    Yuck.

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  • Shayla_jones
    8 years ago

    It is normal. I'm just like you. My ex thought I was a HUGE flirt. I sat him down and talked to him about it. I proved to him I wasn't looking fir anyone else, we got back together and about a week later we broke up again because he was cheating. So it may not have been you. He just wanted to use that as an excuse.

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    • iEatZombies_
      8 years ago

      All that really says is that neither of you considered the other's feelings. Don't pin your problems on this girl's ex.

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