Is it normal for my boyfriend and i to both have depression?

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend of over 3 months is depressed and over the past month I have realized I'm depressed. Is it normal? We haven't talked about it at all. Should I ask him about it? Try to help him? What do I do?

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82% Normal
Based on 51 votes (42 yes)
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  • flightlesskiwi

    It sounds pretty normal since depression is the most common mental disorder out there.

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  • sillygirl77

    It's normal. Yes, you should bring it up and maybe you each can see a therapist. I'd do individual therapy since it's not a couples issues you're dealing with. You're each individually depressed. I'm sorry to hear it and I hope things look up for both of you in the future.

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  • thr

    Yes, ask him about it. Talk about it, don't make it something that can't be mentioned.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Birds of a feather...

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