Is it normal for my bf to watch porn even if it's not ok with me?

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he admitted that he watches porn or i got it out of him and i sounded jealous so that is probably the reason why he said he'd stop. I was curious one day and looked through his history (bc he was very agressive.. about it) and i saw a bunch of porn that was about things he said he never liked. It made me angry to think about because he as my hs sweet heart, he'd always tell me he isnt into a specific race and yet he'd flirt with them. I can be ok with porn but he makes it as i would be a bad person/ wife if i were to do it too.

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  • jethro
    4 years ago

    What's the problem if he watches porn?

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  • KacyWatson
    3 years ago

    It's perfectly normal but it is a s*** thing that he's paying attention to pornography and not you.

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  • MarshmalloPeepz
    4 years ago

    The real problem is you invading his privacy. If you can't trust him, leave the relationship for both of your sake.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    4 years ago

    Yall need better communication. He should not have to lie to you about what kind of porn he watches. He shouldn't have to cover it up and you shouldn't be going through his porns like a jealous lunatic. Yall should tell eachother the truth all the tine.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    I wouldn't care unless he thought sex is just like in porn and tried things I wasn't comfortable with.

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
      4 years ago

      Sex should be just like it is in porn. Mine is

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  • controversy
    4 years ago

    Yes, that is normal.

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  • nearwantsyourkids
    4 years ago

    He has his own life and you have your own. If he wants to watch some porn, then let him. He might come up with something you both like and make your guys' life more exciting as well.

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  • trexagireve
    4 years ago

    Let him educate himself from the porn. He will come after this training to you and be a much better lover!

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    • lonelythoughts
      4 years ago

      all he watches are girls orgasms

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      • trexagireve
        4 years ago

        He wants to learn more about how to make you have a super orgasm. That's why he is watching this stuff.

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    Is it boyfriend or husband? You said wife. Either way maybe try some of the stuff he looks at.

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  • Nsatiabul
    4 years ago

    It sounds to me like you both are very young, and should be thinking more about the future, and what you might be able to contribute to it's success, and you need to STOP being so CONTROLLING.

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  • lonelythoughts
    4 years ago

    he has changed as a person since HS but i feel like he secretly never has.

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago

      He secretly never has what?

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    He sounds like a little bitch.

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  • Iszzy123
    4 years ago

    Walk away

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