Is it normal for my bf to react like this?

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Lately ive been having dreams about my boyfriend being violently abused by his moms boyfriend... The first (and last) time I told him about it, i almost gave him a heartatack. His hands were covering his head and he was shaking telling me to stop. Ive stopped telling him pecause i dont want to see him panic like that but im worried that there could be something more to this... Should I let it go? What should I do?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Maybe he is gay and dont want you to know

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  • DarkLord1776
    8 years ago

    If he acted like that, I'd say there has probably been some abuse in his past. Watch out for unexplained bruises or if he becomes really withdrawn, talk to him. Don't dive in and ask him if someones abusing him, just tell him that you'll be there for him and he can tell you anything. You can't make him open up, but you can make it easier for him to do it on his own.

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    • Stand2260by
      8 years ago

      Yes true help him and don't leave him

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago

        Why would I leave him?

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  • AgamemnonBitch
    8 years ago

    JUST DO IT

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  • howard2015
    8 years ago

    Let it go. If he wants to talk to you he will

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  • mypenisinyourmouth
    8 years ago

    Maybe his hands were covering his head because he has really bad dandruff

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I dont think so.

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      • mypenisinyourmouth
        8 years ago

        I'm not in the position to trust what you think. He has dandruff. End of story.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Actually the correct term would be eczema.

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  • Bambi2015
    8 years ago

    Just let it be if he wants to discuss it with u he will stay out of his business until he is ready or feels comfortable enough to let u into that part of his life if u care about him give him time to come around and open up.Obviously he isnt ready .

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It's just a dream, let it go. You are not prescient, most likely, and if you are, then start dreaming of lotto tickets instead.

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