Is it normal for my bf to be distant?

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Lately i just feel like my boyfriend has been distant and i feel really alone.. i try talking to him and he says nothing is wrong but it just feels like there is something wrong and i don't know why i just have this feeling that there is. i don't want to seem like the gf that complains because I'm not complaining I'm just scared and i don't want to loss him because I'm in love with him and i don't know what to do because i don't want to suffocate him but I'm also scared hes gonna think i don't love him anymore so im just scared actually petrified and i just want to be a good gf. Is it normal to feel like this?

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Based on 29 votes (13 yes)
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  • twinkletoes
    13 years ago

    i cant give up on him tho.. i broke up with him last night and told him we can try again once he gets clean.. but it wasnt just cuz of his addiction that i broke up with him, it cuz of how he has been trowds me.. but i promised him i wont let me go throw this alone and ill help him everystep of the way but i cant be with him untill he gets clean and can treat me right again.. ='(

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  • twinkletoes
    13 years ago

    hes going threw a really hard time right now hes detoxing so hes really irritable what could i do so he isnt so crabby with me? the more i try to help him it seems the more angryer he gets

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  • twinkletoes
    13 years ago

    how do i teach him?

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  • twinkletoes
    13 years ago

    he did stop doing drugs for me but even before he stoped he seems distant, he only really talks to me to make sure im not with someone else, and wen were together his friends are alwyas with and i kinda feel like one of the guys i just wish i knew what to do so he wants to talk to me and know how im doin like he use to wen we first got together, he says ive been acting diffrent but hes the one who has been acting diffrent not me

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    that is the longest sentence i think i've ever read.

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  • Floppykafilkafish
    13 years ago

    Maybe he's going through something just guessing tho and i also dont think u should listen to the first comment maybe hes trying to make you feel that way so you say you love him more

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  • misskrum
    13 years ago

    You shouldn't feel like you have to "be a good girlfriend" for someone. He seems to not be appreciating you and frankly, doesn't seem to be worth your time.

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