Is it normal for me to not want to be there for my bff anymore?

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Last night me & three of my friends stayed at one of our guy friends house and one of my friends said that she wasn't going to leave me when we got there and we started drinking and the next thing I know she's gone with the two boys and one of the other girls went to and they locked me and my friend out. My friend that I was left with got sick; so I was left to babysit while my best friend lost her virginity to a guy who has a girlfriend and doesn't give a fuck about her; and when he was done tried to sleep with me to. I tried to tell her he's was just using her but everything went in one ear and out the other. I stayed up all night taking care of my friend; when I confronted her she acted like it was no big deal and that I was blowing it all up out of proportion. This isn't the first time she's done this to me; but she's my BEST friend and I don't want to stop talking to her I just feel used and ignored. I don't know what to do anymore!

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  • BlueAlice
    11 years ago

    She refuses to even try and help herself and is using you as a crutch. She doesn't seem to be helping you out with your problems, so just stop being there for her.

    Leave the silly chavvy bint to fall flat on her face and let her learn the hard way how not to be an idiot (Although frankly, I suspect she'll never learn).

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  • KatieLiz
    12 years ago

    I used to have a 'best friend' like yours. I kept all my frustration locked up and it the end it just burst out of me. That was four years ago. We're still friends and quite close, but we've taken different paths and only see each other about twice a year. That's about as much of her as I can take

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Slap some sense into the silly bitch

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    It's ok for a friend to leave you behind at a party once in a while but I don't stand for that kind of thing too often. I had a friend who just disappeared all the time when we went out and, after the second or third time in a row, I just stopped going out with him. When I go out with friends, we do it to hang out and have fun together and I find it disrespectful to just leave the group for no good reason.

    There is the bro code where, if he got a good chance of getting some, it's ok. But I still wouldn't stand it if it happened all the time.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    If she didn't see it as a big deal there's nothing wrong with that. Not everyone thinks virginity is such a big deal, that's kind of an old way of thinking more rooted in traditions of the church than on anything realistic. Sex is something special? It's the most heathen, carnal, animalistic thing we do. XD

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Who wants to be around that sort of activity.

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  • rawr123451
    12 years ago

    She's drunk. Thats what happens when ppl get shitfaced. They do things the normally wouldnt

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