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Seems like whenever I get into a relationship, I call it quits after a few months with the girl. I don't know if it's because I'm bored with that person or I is it because I hate tending to other peoples wants and needs. Does anyone else do this?
I can see how you would feel that way.
Judging from this
"I hate tending to other peoples wants and needs."
It looks as if you have been in relationships in which you have not received as much as you have given. In a normal relationship, doing for your partner isn't an issue because they do for you as well. It is a partnership. In a good relationship, she would have been meeting your needs and you would have been meeting hers because meeting her needs keeps your needs met. There's appreciation and you might not be dating the right kind of girl if you feel that all you do is give and your relationship with her akin to being a father to a child and having to cater to a co-dependant woman.
I think you should probably go outside of your norm and find a more independant female.
I'm the same way, it's extremely hard for me to stay in a relationship even if I want to but I think I'm like that because of my past and divorced parents I just don't c the point when in the end your gonna end up alone or hurt I hate that I'm like this but no matter how hard I try
to change nothing will ever last 4 me but I don't think it's normal lol