Is it normal for me to be engaged but still want to make out other people?

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I'm 25 and engaged. My relationship is a loving, understanding one. Really no major issues here.

However, I just really like to make out with people. I don't get why I "should" have to go the rest of my life without kissing anyone else. I have no desire to have sex with other people whatsoever - in fact, sex isn't all that appealing to me in the first place.

I like the excitement of making out with someone and I also find it interesting/entertaining. Hell, I also love all the attention I can get. My fiancé isn't too bothered by this - he's just worried that people will take it the wrong way and think I'm leading up to sex. I understand this - I don't want to get myself in a bad situation.

Is it normal to be engaged and still want to make out with other people? Any advice or experiences? Can anyone shed some light on this?

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Based on 16 votes (7 yes)
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  • Captaincone9
    8 years ago

    Its called....You feel the walls closing in on you in your prime and and you're like ...NO IM NOT READY!! Its normal...and as long as you dont have sex or oral sex...its ok to flirt...but once you start playing with fire...its hard to extinguish those flames..

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  • Fenris33
    8 years ago

    If both of you see it that way, then maybe it's no problem. But for me personally it's not normal so i voted no.

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  • walkingparadox
    8 years ago

    Nah that's not normal. Respect yourself and respect your fiance. You don't get why you 'should have to' go the rest of your life without kissing anyone else are you serious? Real selfish outlook if you ask me that you enjoy the attention you get from it, if you don't want to be committed to your fiance then leave him alone and carry on with your ways, let him find someone who actually wants to be with only him ... your supposed to marrying the guy, you gonna' be 40 with kids and still kissing other men?

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    • lhize
      8 years ago

      i just don't see kissing someone as "being with them" or "wanting to be with them." I guess we're on opposite sides here.

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      • walkingparadox
        7 years ago

        I guess you and I have different definitions of what love and commitment are then, certainly wouldn't want to be your fiance that's for sure the poor man.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    So he's "not too bothered" about it? I think that could easily turn into extremely bothered in time.

    So you kiss passionately with people, which would lead them to believe you're interested in them sexually, when in fact you're not? That's a very dishonest and dangerous game.

    Normal to want to, whether engaged or married, but not a good idea to actually do it

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    • lhize
      8 years ago

      The last sentence is helpful, thank you :)

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        You're welcome

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