Is it normal for me to all ways think about one girl who never loved me

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When I was 14 I knew this 18 year old girl from a little private school I went to, for about a year. The year I got there was the year she was going to graduate. After she left we started to talk. We were not going out but we did do "stuff" to each other, not full on sex. Since we were not going out she dated a guy, and since I loved her, I waited for her. He broke her heart and I was the easy rebound. One night while I was sneaking out of my house to see her I got caught. I ran into her 4 months after that at a party but we didt say anything. Now im 18 and still get sad when i see her picture cause I really did love her. Whether it was love or lust, I dont want any other girl except her. Ive tried calling and texting her after the first two weeks it all happened, but when i did my princepal found out and called my parents. I dont know how she found out. is it normal for me to be this obsesed.

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  • theabider
    11 years ago

    I think you are normal enough, because of what you have been through, it is hard to get over her. However, I do not think your situation was that normal. First of all, you were only 14, and you were being sexually intimate with an adult. Your "first" perhaps? Therefore, you feel strongly attached, emotionally and physically. However, if she does not want you, you should accept it and move on. Sure, she can have a special place in your heart, but other than that, move on with life.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    Its lover you cant control love

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  • BigScaryRooster
    11 years ago

    She was an adult. You were still an underage teen. She took advantage of you. Why the hell isnt she in jail?! If you loved her, then it's normal to obcess over her.

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    • droopzy
      11 years ago

      Nonononono if anything I sorta tricked her

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