Is it normal for me a middle eastern man to argue or fight with my wife

Wow big man picking on your wife and kids.

What's next? Are you gonna box OJ Simpson for the title of "Heavyweight Douchebag"?

I'm Middle Eastern man, and people like you give Middle Easterners a bad name....

Many many girls who I go out with have heard the stereotype of Middle Eastern men being abusive and controlling, and I know they get cautious with me (maybe unintentionally). It is the worst feeling ever. Douchebags like you, think that it is part of being a man. Buddy, if that's your definition of being a man, then you FAIL. Learn about the traits of the Arab men in history who have been praised. For example, Prophet Mohammed! If you don't believe in religion, you can still read about the prophet and learn a lot from him. He's a great human being.

But our religious teachings tell us "A REAL man backs down when in anger." I have been raised that way, and apply it in my DAILY life.

I'm proud to be Middle Eastern, but I feel like I'm always pressured to prove something to people because of my ethnicity. People like you, make it really really bad for the other nice Middle Eastern men.

One advice I can tell you, accept your small sized penis, and don't take the piss on people for it. Accept that you can't do anything about it to make it bigger.

Being controlling and abusive doesn't have anything to do with ethnicity. There are just as much abusive Middle Eastern men, as there are abusive Caucasian men.

It's not just middle eastern men. Some men are just like you. It's all about control. Is your life out of control? What is it with your life that you feel you need to belittle your wife? Does it make you feel more like a man? (which by the way is NOT manly). Do you treat all women like they are dirt?

You have a sorry life. You will be alone.

Sounds like you need anger management. Before she leaves you. I left my ex for this very reason. Best thing I ever did.

It's so sad that in this day and age women still put up with this.

Was it really important to include that you were a "middle eastern man" to your story?

I was married to a middle easterner for 10 years. He would agree with my stand on issues, but then he couldn't change his behavior even when he wanted to. I think he's a good man, I'm glad I don't live with him though. I mean, he tries, he really does. Changing ingrained behavior you don't like within yourself isn't a piece of cake.

Are you a big buff muscle builder manly man or just someone who can't control their eating habits manly man?

Oh and a real man stands up to bigger people, they don't pick on those smaller than them... doing that makes you a girly man.

You sound like a typical asshole. Its not a personality disorder its just the way some people are. Its very common.

You are strange

I also take her car (which she paid for and loves ) sometimes without asking her and sometimes when i ask her and drive it recklessly , like i scratched it alot when i bump it into thinggs due to my reckless drivingg , i drive it as if it''s mine , not caringg thhat it's my wife''s care and she love it ..

She doesn''t dare to say a thing , even though it'''s her car .I drive like a teenager many times ot a person in his twenties , even though i am almost 70 years old .

i am retired and my wife is still working , anyways part of her work she travels alot each year so i go with her , but i act like i am in control and get angry and act like the manly man in the airport and in the country that we travleed to,forgeting that without my wife i wouldn't have travelled in the first place . <BR>Alot of things my wife does , she brings the income , she cooks , she cleans , she listens to my arguing ,problems , fighting , she travells so i travel with her . When it was her birthday instead of making it special i acted like a manly man jerk ,that's in control in the beach(since i took her to the beach to enjoy her birthday ). yesterday she wake up early to cook , instead of me telling her , thank you for your effort , i told her " why the energy ?' . 'why the enrgy in the morning ?', without my wife i am NOTHING yet i keep on hurting her , without her the kids wont be born, without her i wouldn't travel to places , without her she wouldn't bring income , without her there will be no one listening to my problems, ...etc, yet i keep on arguing with her fighting with her , complaining to her, even though she should get all the credits for doing most of the things.

you are being unhappy.

i also enter the house with my manly voice and each time i enter it i call my wife's name in a manly authoritve way , like i want her to leave everything shhe's doingg and sit next to me when i am eating or here me complain about things happened to me, my wife is stupid..i love hher and all , but shhe''s supid is shhe wasn't stupid she would hhave left me a long time ago , like my first wife. My wife will sacrfice her needs to satisfy my own , i don't complain in fact i'm happy with that , she'll have her birthday cake and eat a small piece and then tells me will bring the rest to your mother when we pass by her today , she'll keep on giving me love and care , yet i don't show that , the only love and care i show is by the food (tacky and on very low prices ) food i bring and chocolates ,or the coffee i make for me and her, but you know how stupid women fall in love with Jerks I(that's why we jerks don't marry bitches or strong incontrol females ) ,u know how stupid women are, they give them thier all and expect lots in return , but it's only thhem giving ..sometimes they know it sometimes they don't .

Well she can't beat it out of you but least u know ure a jerk and would like to work on not being one but since ure middle eastern that's kinda hard it has been ure whole life to be superior than females and females are property. U just face the fact ure kids at westernized and ure wife can vote drive and wear sexy lingerie she can divorce u with papers not ask for permission and don't have to wear the abaya u just can't handle it well sometimes it's called compromise u got to deal that life isn't always like a third world country and u shouldn't be living like ure in jesus days suck it up and stop being a jerk

Don't get me wrong , even though i do act like a manly man "jerk" as you guys like to call me , yet i am affectionate and do show some emotions , not that i show lots of care like i buy my wife a gift on her birthday (she does that to me though )or buy her a gift on mother's day ,the affection and love that i show is that i bring her stuff she likes like chocolate at times, alot of time i do the grocery shopping ,she does as well , i do the coffee (arabic coffee ) for the two of us .

You may bully your wife and kids at the moment but one day they are going to up and leave you. You may just come home to an empty house some day :o(

However, I think you're halfway there when you recognise you're a total dickhead. These are the people you are supposed to care about and who are trying to care about you. I hope when you are sick (or dying) they don't just let you lie there alone :o( You need to shut up and try to give them a better life before it's too late :o(