Is it normal for husbands to mention 3som?

Recently my husband asked me (jokingly or seriously, I can't say)what if he has me on one side and my gf, or any other girl, on other side, while he himself is in-between. Later, he again talked on this subject, though briefly. Is it normal for husbands to talk like it?

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Based on 73 votes (62 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • Enjoyhavefun

    Lots of guys dream of it. The next time he brings it up ask him what he thinks about you between him and another guy? Or you blowing him with another guy fucking you ? If he doesn't answer quickly or if he says yes but his first don't do it. But if you think you might get yours first or you might he wants his and don't care if you get yours .

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  • YummyRee

    I think it's normal, most men would like to be in a threesome. But you need to ask yourself if your really ready or really want that. If not then don't do it but if so then. I say go for it both of you agree and would enjoy it. Just be safe.

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  • maskedsanity

    Yes a lot of guys fantasize about 2 women at once it is competely normal.

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  • its normal.

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  • Boyinterrupted22

    We ALL think about threesomes.
    If you're comfortable with trying one then you do you. It doesn't sound like your comfortable though so just let your husband know thats not for you. Communicate. Don't be a total prude on him though I mean it's every mans fanatasy.

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  • Girlinterrupted18

    Basically he want's to sleep with your friend, without "technically cheating". Why else would he request it? I'm not trying to sound mean I'm being totally honest. Hope you guys can get on

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  • RoseIsabella

    No he sounds like a selfish piece of shit who wants a threesome. Don't consent to anything you don't want to do or disapprove of morally or for whatever reason. Just remember marriage is supposed to be monogamous, and you don't owe him any of this threesome crap.

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    • adventurous

      I agree with you.

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    • Girlinterrupted18

      OK 1. You sound mad. And 2. You must hAve been cheated on recently? 😕

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  • Biman458

    I have talked to my wife about except it would be me and another man instead

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  • Justmehere

    Yes, normal. Maybe rare, but normal. My ex wife was barely, if ever, into sex, but, I've since had gf's who were at least...Discussable for a three-way. Have brought it up, jokingly..To a young, hot blonde FWB, and she wasn't opposed to it. I mentioned meeting her friend just last week (with her), and commented "Wouldn't it be fun for you, Sabrina, and I to...Get together at my house?". No answer of plans yet, but I'm waiting..

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  • MagicStick84

    Its a lil strange but i would b worried if be wanted it with another man, because i would never b able to watch another man with my lady but i could watch a woman with my lady. We bein togethger 12 years this march 30th. She bein wit me thru everything wen i was young n stupid and gang life sent me to prison at 17yrs old for a few yrs. We met 2weeks before i got locked upand stayd in contact until i got out at 21yrs old n bein together ever since. I love her with my whole heart n would never cheat on her i love her more now than ever beforehand which is rare with relationships but what im getting at is, i would love to have 3some with her if she was ok with it but i would never push the issue if she didnt. Its normal for a man to fantasize about his woman with another woman especially wen we masturbate, thats a great sign if he is thinking about u still while pleasuring himself. Probuly just wants to act out his favorite fantasy. I dont think its selfishness but an attempt to spice things up with a time time fantasy, or even maybe to see if maybe u wana do it as well n havent said anything about it keeping it only your fantasy and lettn u know he is open to it. If u do go thru with it realy think it out like if u do it with someone u know or a stranger and boundaries lime wut u both can or cant do durring the 3some3. If its not your fantasy wouldnt u want him to consider giving u your fantasy. If not that wouldn't b selfish i think....

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  • genericusername

    Don't do it it's bad cut his dick off- it's normal for him to ask though but he really shouldn't be

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  • Kaju_katli

    Your husband is full of shit or he is not satisfied with you alone.... Just slap him and try to make your sex life better that he never thinks about any 3rd person other than you

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  • NUTCRACKER

    All men's fantasy is to have a threesome in his life before he gets ED.
    He wants to watch you and another female go down on each other and you and she fuck each other wearing a strap - on in your cunts and in your assholes and then suck the strap - on's until they are clean and dry.

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  • adventurous

    I am not thinking on these lines.

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