Is it normal for him to be this way with me after 4 years of friendship?

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5 years ago I went on holiday to Greece and I met a friend, I'm 19 now but 14 at the time and he's 40 at the moment. We've been friends since I started going there but not just me, he's friends with all my family. Every year we've been going back he's remembered us and we've have loads of fun, he always gave me lots of cuddles and looked after all my family with free drinks etc.. But when we went back this year it was different, after the first few nights he started to change, once my parents had gone to bed and I was left in the bar with him he started by feeling my leg, and then kisses and by the end of the holiday we'd slept together 3 times. We've kept in touch by text and phone calls since we first met and I've always thought the world of him. Does this mean I mean something to him? I love him to bits and miss him more than anything :-( but is the age wrong? Is it normal?

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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    I don't know, a lot of guys use chicks for sex, seems like it was easy for him to get with you so he might not think much of you. He could be having sex with chicks and you'd never know, us dudes are messed up, most of us treat women as objects, hard to find a good dude nowadays, wow that sounded gay lol

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    He's a creep.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      **wakes up erection while walking down a crowded street***

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Haha you got played.

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  • SeaSky
    10 years ago

    Err.. you mean a 35 year old man became friends with a 14 year old? I'm not really sure that part is normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    **becomes slightly arroused by farfetched internet tale*****

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  • kinklu
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't pin my hopes on a proposal. It sounds like he's just having a casual affair with a very young girl and I hope he isn't boasting of it to his friends. It doesn't sound like he's going to propose in the near future.

    Guys are different. They tend to deposit their seed in as many girls as possible. It's nature. Women want one good man and men want as many sexy women as they can possibly handle. All you can do is make it harder for him to sleep with you and see if he hangs around. Good luck.

    What am I doing. I don't even understand women and here I am trying to advise one! Sheesh! At least he waited long enough not to be a pedophile.

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