Is it normal for guys to go mia without a warning?

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So is it normal? Is it "healthy" for a guy to do that in a relationship? As in everything is good then suddenly you don't hear from him...OK...few days have gone by...nothing...possibly a week or more..eventually you ask wth is going on? They say they're going through things or say something like they'll talk to you about it soon. This is how it goes down with my bf and I. He has a really bad habit of going MIA and we've talked about how I don't like it but apparently it didn't get to him because he's done it again and this time it's even longer and stranger. We left off on a good note the last time we were together then he disappeared. The last time he did this he said was going through things but I told him it would be nice to know what's going on then I'll respect the "space" you need. But I guess he didn't take note of that because he's left me hanging again and I asked what's going on after a week and he just said we would talk about it soon. Ugh its so inconsiderate of my feelings but then I wonder is it normal? Or should I be this upset? I understand he might be going through something but is it so big he needs to completely shut me down for this long? I just don't get it.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    yes

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Why?

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      • Terence_the_viking
        8 years ago

        Because they just do. We face our problems alone.

        Every man prefers tobe a lone wolf.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          But why tho? Because they want to be free from responsibility? Is that why they always cheat? It makes sense. But it just doesn't click why to such an extent like my bf is doing is necessary.

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          • Terence_the_viking
            8 years ago

            Oh fuck no you didn't just say that.

            Dick heads cheat real men don't.

            drop kick that fucker out of your life.

            Cowards cheat if i started to have feelings for someone else i would leave you instead of cheat on you.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Well then why do guys go mia? And do they go as far as my bf is doing? Where he doesn't even give me a heads up somrthings wrong unless I ask him? He has said how he likes to focus on one thing only but this time its like he just took off without notice. He already apologized but I'm like man you're acting like a little kid who doesn't know how to maturely let me know what is going on. He's either extremely immature and clueless or he really is disrespecting me by not letting me in.

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  • yourdeepestshame1
    8 years ago

    Could he be an addict going on binges?

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  • Sara0303
    7 years ago

    He's not interested, he's giving you all the signs. Move on

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Is it possible only one of you thinks 'everything is good'? If he's been trying to let you know things aren't as good for him as they are for you, and you weren't receiving the signals, perhaps he got tired of trying and bailed.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      He hasn't told me anything nor have I seen the signals. He always wants to see me, he gives me his full attention when I'm there, he likes to spend as much time with me since were long distance. Soo yeah I think were both fine. He just has this really bad habit that I don't know if its normal or not. Since he is fine with me but it seems like its not normal for him to do this then what could it be?

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