Is it normal for gf to make u pay for her bc?

I think that you and her should split the cost in half, unless you are the one who wants her to go on the pills because you don´t want to use condoms- Then you should pay for all of it.

Sometimes girls looks for a fight, it's just our fucking hormones. If you love the girl, let her calm her tits for a couple of days and then tell her you think her behaviour was shitty. If she can´t even admit that you are better off without her.

Again, she was on the pills BEFORE we were together. Yeah, it's nice not having to use a condom, but I never asked her to go on them, or said I didn't wanna use condoms. It looks like I'm gonna have to now tho. I just feel like I'm validating her threats by doing it. She's gonna think that all she's gotta do is threaten to not have sex with me and she'll get whatever the hell she wants. And we all do crazy things for love. I knew this woman was bad news, but by that time it was far too late. I had fallen in love with her. Now I gotta figure out how to deal with all these.... Quirks, she has.

I'm trying to imagine how this would go down if the genders were reversed, and it was a guy always buying the condoms, asking his girlfriend to foot the bill:

"Hey, don't you think you should pay for my condoms? I don't think we should have sex anymore unless you pay for the condoms we use. I'm the one fucking you, after all."

At best you two split them. But you don't have an obligation to help pay. My gf pays for her BC. And wouldn't throw a tantrum if I refused to help. If she needed help I'd help. But don't feed her sense of entitlement.

The real question here is why are you with someone that will throw a tantrum over not getting her way?

It would be nice of you to pay, but she definitely owes you an apology for that attitude. You didn't even give her an answer before she freaked. You're not responsible for her bills, but it would be generous to take on the responsibility. As for fairness, paying half for anything you both use is just.
In a nice relationship, she would ask kindly, you would say yes, and she would be -grateful-.

You should pay half. Hell the whole price is cheaper than a baby. How much could it possibly cost?

Just think about someone who don't have any girlfriend and pay good amount to prostitutes.

You sound like a total jerk to me and if this girl had any brains, she'd dump you in a heartbeat. I hope she never lets you fuck her again.

Ive decided to cave. God was she angry at me lol. She couldn't even look at me when she came over to talk to me about it. "If it takes u that long to figure out that I was asking u for help then you are an idiot". Then she proceeded to bring up almost every problem we have ever had in our relationship that i thought we had put to bed. I can tell she harbors such resentment for not getting her way in each of these instances. And these are stupid things like her launching my phone off the balcony, and me paying for her gas that she uses to drive over here, about how I FORCED her to have sex in the beginning of our relationship (it takes 2 to tango as they say...), how she runs off whenever things get less than easy. When she sees conflict she bails. Any minor problem or arguement I'm left to deal on my own till I decide to drop it, it's disgustingly careless. like WTF! I'm starting to think this is beyond repair...

If something like paying for contraception caused an issue and she threatens to not have sex with you for it, get rid of her. Like now.

You don't wanna become a dad before your time? Cough up the dough and pay for her birth control! Its not her responsibility alone. She makes the effort to take the damn things despite the potentially hideous side effects it puts her body through, the least you can do is sponsor her for the expensive little things.

She was not asking you for the moon, I understand that she got angry. You're sleeping with her and yet you are surprised when she asked for you to pay for her birth control.

I think people are being a bit harsh on OP, after all a guy would be crucified if he asked a girl to go half's in a pack of condoms.

Leave her there are plenty of other women who can pay for their own blemish control, I mean birth control without resorting to threats.