Is it normal for gf to bail on new years eve?

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My gf wanted me to go to this kaskade show tonight with her. Thing is, it's 150 miles away and I'm broke. Whenever I invite her to things, I always pay for them, and usually pay when she invites me anyway. But I told her I can't go because I'm broke, which is only part of it. I also don't really wanna go. It's not my kind of thing. It's like a rave. Lots of drugs, people, drinking. I feel like I grew out of that shit a while ago, but she still has something to prove I guess. She's one of those people that ALWAYS a has to be doing something or she feels like she's wasting her life. It's exhausting, and I to,d her so. So now she's going with some other guy and some people I don't know. I don't know why. But I'm pissed off. I wanted to spend the new year with her, but instead she's going off to this BS with people I don't even know. If I had the $ Id probably go just to keep an eye on her, make sure she doesn't OD or get dosed or something.im just worried and a bit irked that whenever I take or invite her places, she expects me to pay. And the one time I cant. She ditches me and goes with someone else. Her defense to this is "I told u about it over a month ago and you have plenty of $ for weed" which are both true and I to,d her right away I wasn't gonna have $ after Xmas. Bought her like 300$ worth of shit and now I'm broke... I'm so wicked pissed off about this shit... I almost kicked her out of my apartment last night.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    First thought after reading this? Don't worry if she ODs...A burden gets lifted off of your back that way.

    But in all seriousness, dump her. She is not worth it. She's a leech and nothing more. The fact she would ditch you because you have no money and take another guy to a party to drink, do drugs, and so on makes is so damn obvious she's a shady cunt and will probably get sexual in some form with someone else...No doubt if you found out she would alsoblame it on the drink and drugs.

    Look at it this way. The more time you spend with this ungrateful, cold, cow of a person the less time you have to find someone who won't just be with you for your wallet. The time is ticking and the time you spend on a woman like this who isn't worth your time the less time you spend finding the woman who would appreciate you.

    End the relationship. She's not worth the trouble or the emotional torture.

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  • howaminotmyself
    9 years ago

    I don't think I like your girlfriend. Do you really want to be with someone who can't prioritize hanging out with you over getting fucked up? Money is only part of the issue, you guys don't sound like a good fit for the long haul.

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  • TareBear20
    9 years ago

    I would NEVER ditch my man to chill with other men, especially on the new year. :/ I'm sorry, that's scummy. You have every right to be upset. Next time you have any amount of money, spend that shit in yourself and don't even think about her, because she clearly does not deserve it.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    Not normal. Perhaps you should break up with her and save yourself from the unnecessary stress.

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    • pastor_of_muppets
      9 years ago

      I also thought he should dump her because she is one of those party loving, attention craving girls... but then I read about his weed and blah blah and thought to myself that he kinda deserves this because he allows it to happen to him and he doesn't even trust her.
      Pfffft.
      Anyhoo :) Happy New Year to you! (^_^)

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        9 years ago

        Happy New Year to you too Mr Puppets of the Master Variety.
        :)

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you are older than I am. If you are going to hang out with a young chick, then you know she's gonna want to party.
    It's not going to be too long before she's stuck with a couple of brats and a house to run, plus obviously supporting you (broke on new year's eve???) or some other dead beat.
    You do not sound like a compatible couple to me, anyway.

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  • DannyKanes
    9 years ago

    Sounds like to me you need a maturer girlfriend.

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