Is it normal for daughter to make middle of night trips to the bathroom naked?

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A couple nights ago, I was up about 2 am to go to the bathroom. My 16 yo daughter apparently was up too and was heading back to her room just as I stepped into the hall.
It's not unusual for ships to pass in the night like that in our house, but here's the thing. Lately she is in the habit of doing this. She was wearing her undie bottoms, but nothing on top. Her room is in the opposite direction, so I didn't see her front, and I don't think she even knew I was up, but the nightlight in the hallway made it obvious all she had on was her bottoms.

She is extremely busty, even more so than her mom was. and hates bras, never wearing one around the house. She prefers to sleep nude or in just her panties. I'm not as bothered that she apparently sleeps that way now (although I was mildly taken aback), as I am that she leaves her room that way.

My fiance thinks I'm overreacting, but she has younger brothers, and she needs to be considerate of other people in the house. And it might be problematic to have them treated to frontal display of her bouncing around. Does it make a difference for them?

Just wondering if others have had similar situations.
Should I bring it up with her or just forget about it?

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Spankz

9 years ago

If I'm lying naked in bed and I have to pee, I'm not going to get dressed if it's in the middle of the night, I just sprint to the washroom. Or, if it's like 3 in the morning I just walk normally to the washroom. It seems silly to me to get up, put clothes on, go for a pee, go back to my room and get naked again. If people are awake I sometimes just wrap a towel around myself, perhaps you can suggest that?

I don't see it as a problem unless she is trying to be seen, that can be a little...weird. But, it seems to me that she just can't be bothered to get dressed just for a trip to the washroom.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yeah. I don't know enough about raising girls to tell.
  What if she is wanting to be seen?
  
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  - Spankz
    
    9 years ago
    
    Then definitely talk to her and tell her that her behaviour is inappropriate. I don't think she's doing it to be seen, however. She probably just needs to pee haha
    
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AlleyCat4MissHairyLoveKitten

9 years ago

If you think she's being inappropriate tell her about it

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sky38203

9 years ago

It is normal, i only sleep with a top and no bottoms. She doesnt expect you to see her at night...If you have a problem, talk to her. If not, let her be free XD

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Mr-Myrtos

9 years ago

I live in a naturist resort all year round with my son. Everybody here spends most of the year naked everyware. Therefore that is no problem.
If you have problems with nudity tell her about it.
In your shoes I would simply not care about. Let her be free and have no problems with her body.
I think the one having a problem there is you.

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Couman

9 years ago

The thing you have to remember is that normal people, unlike IIN users, don't engage in incest at the drop of a hat. So chances are if her brothers see her topless, it will result in nothing more than brief embarrassment.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  From the neck up she is just their dumb sister, but below she has developed into something quite 'mature'.
  
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stopandthink

9 years ago

It's normal she did it at night when she assumed she was cloaked by darkness and everyone was asleep.
If she does that outside of those parameters then I sense exhibitionsim and that's not a good thing.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I am frankly suspecting the latter, in which case I don't know how to handle it.
  
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  - stopandthink
    
    9 years ago
    
    Is she showing any other signs? How does she dress? If exhibitionism is the case then from experience it's very hard to reverse in teen girls, and when you try to they get moody, ignore you, etc.
    Most of the time it's the effect of other girls she mixes with. If she has a phone or something like that, you're her father so you should take it and look through her messages as well as her pictures.
    I would definitely bring it up with her. Just try to gently question her. If there's something she doesn't want you to find out, there's a good chance she'll lie so be careful.
    Good luck sir, I'm a teen, therefore I'm surrounded by girls like her so I know a little bit about this.
    
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JDandLM13

6 years ago

Is her breast covered rest of the time? You said she hates bras I think it's no big deal as long as she isn't walking around all the time in see through shirts braless. If her brothers do see her topless it won't cause any problems I can't tell you how many times I saw my mom go in middle of the night completely naked at a young age and it didn't cause any problems. So again I ask are her breast visible during daytime?

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channelcespedes

7 years ago

It would scar the brothers for life. When they're with women they'll he disturbed by their past and think of their sis. But if they're ok with breasts and will remain unaffected than its fine. It depends on their mentality- are the mature enough?. I grew up in a very open household and i believe I'm fine.

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green_boogers

9 years ago

You are overreacting. Panties with no top is appropriate attire for a 3am bathroom trip.

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VirgilManly

9 years ago

Wasn't this story up the other day but included DS and DD?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yes, I clicked before I checked my bad typing so I re-posted.
  Comment if you like.
  
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Jamforlife2010

5 years ago

If it bothers you talk to her. Let her know why it bothers you. Do not talk to you c/o about it. That will not go over well. I told my step daughter and the stupid bitch keeps it up. If your daughter is doing this shit on purpose after you talked to her about it. I would keep my space from her. Nothing, but head games bro

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r3cpo

6 years ago

if she doesn't wear bras and sleeps nude at least some of the time she hates wearing anything if she doesn't have to and would rather be nude . she will probably sleep nude all the time soon. ans she does go to the bathroom nude at nite also but you never seen her like that yet. but its no big deal when its family nudity especially in the middle of the night . kids see mom dads and one another nude from time to time without the other even knowing it and turn out just fine. just like she could have been going to the bathroom at night nude and you would have been in the hall behind her and she wouldn't have had a clue or even cared less if you did see her nude. don't make it into something its not . its fine .don't make her hate her body by making her cover up. and the brothers will be fine as well. others in families go nude at home sometimes and some all the time.

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abigdick

9 years ago

Nudity is only a problem or an issue if you make it one. We all know what men and women look like. Families should be more open when it comes to nudity. My wife and I grew-up as family nudists and we are naked all of the time when we are at home.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  9 years ago
  
  I suppose if everyone was a nudist all the time, that the issue would be moot.
  
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  - abigdick
    
    9 years ago
    
    For sure. We know a few home nudists families and they are nude 99% of the time. One nudist family has two teenage daughters that are nude every time I visit them. Nudity is not an issue with them and many who are open to the idea.
    
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MisterMastero

9 years ago

Someone up in the middle of the night is normal.

Walking around naked in front of your brothers when you're a lot older, not so much.

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