Is it normal for an ex to friend request you after a year of no contact?

I posted here before about this but there's a new development to the story. She dumped me March, 2013. I decided to move on August, 2013 when I called her up and told her I wasn't interested in being just friends. She said it's best that I do move on but was very proud of me and wished me well. 11 months later (July, 2014), she texts me basically asking how I'm doing. I first replied "Hi who is this?'" because I deleted her contact info. She didn't respond but I recognized the number. A few days later, I texted again asking if this is her. No response. A month later (yesterday), she friend requested me. I accepted it. She still has many of our photos up. Even her cover photo is one I took of her when we were at the park. Now all of a sudden she tags me along with several other people in a random photo of her room. I might be interested in seeing her but not as just a friend. I told her last August I'm not interested in being friends. This is all surprising because before I moved on, she would never initiate like this. What should I make of this? Should I wait until she contacts me directly or should I contact her directly first?

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  • mountain-man82

    I wouldnt make anything of it. She probably just wants to be friends, so dont get your hopes up.

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  • CoraCook

    What you should make of this, IMHO, is nothing. Exes are exes, not good to go back. It feels nice and warm and comfy because it's familiar but the exact same shit will come up again and you will probably be heartbroken again.

    Did you accept the friend request? (Okay, fuck, my reading skills are gone, I just saw you did, sorry). Did you message each other? (Fuck, I might read your post again and find out you did already...)

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    • JoMama123451234

      You're probably right. I guess the curiosity is getting the best of me. And no I did not contact her yet. I am skeptical about her motives. I definitely don't want to let myself get hurt again.

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  • TrustMeImLying

    take a relationship with half parts bad memories, and other half good memories. Let sit for 1 year, come back to it and there will be more good memories than bad

    it gives insight as to why she may want to contact you again, but it still isn't clear what she intends. two texts with no response is weird. your best bet is to not let your guard down

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