Is it normal for a virgin to tell his first one night stand that he's a virgin?

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I'm a virgin in my mid 20's, but I'm not asking whether that's normal or not. What I want to know is that when I do meet someone on a night out and go back to their room with them, would it then be normal to tell them I'm a virgin? It'd probably be a normal thing for someone younger to do, since there's nothing embarrassing for like an 18 year old to be a virgin. But for someone my age to openly tell someone I'm a virgin (especially since it would basically be a stranger) would be kinda weird because it's supposed to be something you should feel ashamed about, but I honestly don't really care that much anymore. I'd like to tell them openly that I am a virgin so that then they'd know why I'm so shit in bed and try to be more understanding about it, and also because I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who'd ridicule anyone for that anyway. It'd be more normal to admit to a girlfriend that I'm a virgin, but I don't want to be in a relationship just to have sex. Girls, what would be your reaction if someone my age admitted that to you?

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    if you bump into a virgin girl , lie and say you have no experience, it helps to get into their panties. But then you have to go through the break in phase with them. it can take a while . but the whole trip is fun.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    I don't think you should. Unless she asks if you are one, I just don't see the reason.

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      6 years ago

      The reason is that I won't feel so stressed with trying to pretend like I've done it loads of times before (as if I should be ashamed of it) that I wouldn't even enjoy it anyway. She might be very understanding and nice about it and help to put me at ease.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    I would love it and would teach you all kinds of fun stuff as long as you could cum multiple times over the course of a session.

    I don't think most women would care, but make her take top first, to guide you in, because there is nothing worse than fumbling around down there.

    Good luck and welcome to the world!!

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    • JellyBeanBandit
      6 years ago

      Thank you :) That's exactly the kind of response I'm looking for with my first partner.

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  • Hateful1
    6 years ago

    NO. Do not tell them until after. I'm sure i'll catch hell for saying this, but most women want a man who knows what to do in bed. If you tell them your a virgin they will freeze up faster then a Popsicle in liquid nitrogen.

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Only if she's a stupid fool. It's amazing helping someone experience new sexual pleasures.

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      • Hateful1
        6 years ago

        I wish I knew you when I was a virgin. But in all likelihood you weren't even born then.

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