Is it normal for a teenage girl to want to sleep next to someone at night?

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I'm a teenage girl and I've never had sex before but for awhile now I've really wanted to go to bed and be able to sleep next to someone. Maybe I'm feeling lonely but for a long time I've wanted to have someone else sleep in the same bed with me. It's nothing sexual by any means. I've never slept with anyone before so is this normal?

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  • dongwhan
    11 years ago | pl

    Buy a teddy bear.

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    • Steve2.0
      8 years ago

      She's a teenager, not a 5 year old.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago | pl

    It's sexual and you know it.

    I'm kidding. I'm your same age and I used to feel that way. Perhaps you are lonely and need to meet someone special. Not in a sexual way, but in a having someone to hold way. Think about it.

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  • Dot123
    11 years ago

    Well if you want a older guy to sleep with you. Just hit me up anytime! I got lots of room for us to spoon and cuddle...Even naked if you want. But beware spooning leads to forking.

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    • ScewfaceMagoo
      11 years ago

      You and assburger can cuddle N fork each other.Hahaha pedobears

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      • Dot123
        11 years ago

        I don't fork males.

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    I like sleep, and I like teenage girls....

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    • Anesthesiologist
      11 years ago

      haha Assburgers. You made my day.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      you horndog .

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal to desire that. To go to sleep next to someone and have that feeling of companionship, that closeness, it's very pleasant :)

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  • Broken_Beauty
    11 years ago

    I feel the same way....I just want a guy (husband, bf, whatever) to hold me. I'm a teen and I've never had a bf....so I have no idea what that feels like....

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    • Oreobeast
      11 years ago

      The feeling of love, when u bond with another so closely that nothing else matters when your around them, that u would do anything for them, when u look in each others eyes and see it, when they are the world. I didn't have a gf till my senior year, but it was all worth it. Unfortunately all good things must come to an end, so the relationship did :/

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  • Jessie735513
    11 years ago

    Yes... I have a close male friend and we aren't dating but we do sleep in the same bed in a non-sexual way. It's just comforting.

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    • flutterhigh
      11 years ago

      Oof. Friendzone in the wild.

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      • Unimportant
        11 years ago | pl

        And now, ladies and gentlemen, let us all have a moment of silence for our poor brothers in the friendzone.

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      • Jessie735513
        11 years ago

        Alas... yes. But a mutual friendzone both ways. Sadly, it was for the best

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  • sograceful
    11 years ago

    I think deep down everyone wants someone to sleep next to.:)

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  • spidercrowblaze18762
    11 years ago

    Yeah baby, ur fine! Ur a teenager, if u dont get someone to sleep with, just put your hand inside ur pussy and start off with it!

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  • Wh0Ar3YoU
    11 years ago

    I know how u feel...now come with me...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    make one like prisoners do to fool the guards, a coconut 2 pillows and a pair of tights filled with cloths if you are racist use a soccor ball or cantelope for the beach bums

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  • jujub
    7 years ago

    Would you like to share a bed with me?

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  • Lovememore
    7 years ago

    Tell any male relatives or amy cousin brothers to sleep with u. At midnight u will feel the tool. Many guys like me who want a chance to sleep with relatives or cousins. I have a younger cousin sister. And we use to sleep in a same bed with grandmother. I lifted her skirt many times in that dark room and tasted her pussy and asshole. I use to rubb my cock on her ass and use to cum. We had sex .

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  • Steve2.0
    8 years ago

    Get laid already! Geez.

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  • pamEla97
    11 years ago

    Im 15 and i wanna sleep with my boyfriend everynight . Its totally normal

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  • topper33
    11 years ago

    go in and cuddel with mom or dad and maybe youll find the ans.. i didnt say sex thats not right but to cuddel is cool

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  • PikaPika
    11 years ago

    Im 15 i have a long distance relationship, when me and my boyfriend are apart i really miss someone to snuggle at night and i would snuggle my (boy) friends, just because i miss my boyfriend so badly ._.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    11 years ago

    If it's not sexual sleep with your pet.

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  • randomstranger777
    11 years ago

    Totally normal!! When i was younger i would sleep on the floor in my parents' room, and now that i'm 'too old' for that, i've moved on to sleeping in my sister's room. :)

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  • videl
    11 years ago

    i have the same "problom" i'm 18 & i thought i was nuts 2 feel this way. i thought i was the only 1 with this "problom" get a guy and u'll probobly get over it. p.s. i've never slept with some 1 so i don't know how it feels

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  • ilikecats17
    11 years ago

    me too, I wish my mom could let my boyfriend sleep over in a completely non sexual way:( that's why he's sneaking over:D

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  • Darthion5
    11 years ago

    I've been awake for so long now that it's not even funny! I hate you computer addiction! COMPUTER ADDICTION! ( ● )_( ● )

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids
    11 years ago

    To bad I can not under stand love.

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  • TheRyesCatcher
    11 years ago

    Yeah, I'm eighteen. A pretty good looking guy, and have not had too many sexual encounters. But, I completely understand wanting to be with someone at night, just to hold.

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  • aaabcas
    11 years ago

    I can relate. Usually when my boyfriend is away even though he doesn't always sleep over I feel that way.

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  • emmyen17
    11 years ago

    I get it. I have my big stuffed animal. I do it too don't worry. I just want someone there in case something happens.

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  • WorldNavy
    11 years ago

    sleep with your parents

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  • sexyblonde<3
    11 years ago

    Yes me too :(

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  • Loh
    11 years ago

    Is this even worth asking? How can this not be normal?...

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  • eebean2
    11 years ago

    Im a guy, and have been longing to curl up around someone for the longest time. I've curled up with people (my little brothers, girlfriends, little niece) n fell asleep before, and it always feels so good. But when that gap is empty, its just so lonely. :(

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  • Kpowell55
    11 years ago

    Yes!! It is so normal I think... I'm also a teen and I feel the same way! :)

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  • weishuaiilike
    11 years ago

    The child, go to sleep........

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Perhaps find a nice same gender freind to stay over be your roomate ?

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  • KiryuuLain
    11 years ago

    It's normal.As a teenager I had the same "problem" too.But I was worse.I had a pillow and prented it to be one of my favourite anime characters and that we were sleeping together.I was even daydreaming how he got there to nake it seem real.
    It's only normal.You feel lonely and to do that whether you felt in love in the past or you are now.

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  • frankiestrange
    11 years ago

    I'm 19, I have a boyfriend and I still sleep with a toy a night. Get a cuddly toy to sleep with. Mine's names Hektor. :3

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  • TommyH
    11 years ago

    i call it balancing the bed. it just feels right with someone else there. pillows don't move teddy bears don't move, people move and give off heat.

    Doesn't have to be sexual, but it could get there.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    I feel the same .

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  • jondoerandom
    11 years ago

    Try dating someone and see if that's what you need.

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  • junosluttt
    11 years ago

    You're lonely, get a dog.

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      thats what im saying, my dog, is old, farty, and a bit lumpy, but love snuggling her lady lumbs LOL

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  • ☭алин
    11 years ago

    Of course it's just cozy

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  • nickii
    11 years ago

    I feel the same haha! after being with my boyfriend it just felt weird sleeping alone..makes me sound like a loser but hey ho!

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  • BHolt
    11 years ago

    If you have a brother or sister, just tell them you're lonely, hop in bed with them and snuggle. Nothing wrong with that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You sucky those cockers

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      sucky those cockers good

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