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I was wondering if it was normal for straight guys to experiment or finger or play with there butthole for pleasure? DOES NOT APPLY TO GAYS FOR OBVIOUS REASONS.
Probably a lot more common than you think! No one dares talk about it though. BTW, no different if a guy or girl does it, the question still applies. One difference is that men have their G-spot in their poop canal, not in their kitty so it actually can be MORE fun for men once you put the homophobic factor away.
Oh, and please wash when you're done or at least before eating or shaking hands with me. ;-)
Its a little strange, but as long as you arent actually engaged in homosexual acts with other men, i would say youre fine
Now why would it not apply to gay guys, are you discriminating? I am not gay but occasionally enjoy fingering my arse. Is your question answered?
It doesn' t apply to gays for obvious reasons. It would be like asking, "Is it normal for my car to take oil?". Does that answer your question.
Well unless your car is a Hybrid running on batteries it certainly will take oil!
My car is not, so it does take oil. I like licking pussy, does this make me a lesbian?
So your assumption is that all gay people automatically love to play with their asses? Gay men are attracted to other men not their own asses. Gay men's asses are exactly the same as straight men's asses. The sensations are exactly the same. Just like straight people, some gay men enjoy anal play and some don't.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, our sex life has always been good but pretty vanilla. he does have some confidence issues. I know that butt play can be very pleasurable for men because of the location of the male g-spot, so I've brought it up before but he's always said that he's not comfortable with me going anywhere neer his asshole. Even if I'm giving him a hand job and my hand happens to go too far south he'll get jumpy and tell me to stop. So I always assumed it's just not something that he's comfortable with. However yesterday I was taking a picture with his phone and saw the "recently deleted" folder. It was full of pictures and videos (which I didn't watch) of him jerking off, fingering his ass and even sticking multiple objects up there himself. Needless to say it kind of freaked me out. I can't help but question what's going on with him? If that's something he's into and he's straight with nothing to hide then why wouldn't he want me to do that with him, especially since I've brought it up multiple times. I know he's attracted to me, he never has issues getting hard. But he has made some comments about how strangers sometimes think he's gay. And its hard to explain but the pictures weren't very masculine, his back was arched and he was looking back at the camera. Anyways If anyone has any insight it would be greatly appreciated because I'm sort of freaking out over this.
I used to enjoy the feeling of sticking a finger in my ass while I jerked off. It gave me such intense orgasms that I went to the adult store and bought a vibrator. Slowly at first, and with a lot of lubricant, I became pretty skilled with my 9" vibrator and can take the entire thing, leaving just enough out to hang on to. Right now I have a few different ones that I alternate using, not to mention the half dozen that I've worn out, and quit vibrating. Haven't tried a guy yet, maybe never will. Sometimes I fantasize about it, but I have many fantasies I've never done and maybe never will. I would say you're normal!
Maybe my opinion doesn't count. I was straight when I started with the finger and vibrator, but along the way I became curious and subsequently performed oral on a lot of guys, so I might be bi, although I haven't had sex with another guy in a looong time, so maybe I'm straight again. If a bi person is celibate can he claim to be straight if he wants to?
Digital self-stimulation of the anus is quite normal. Be careful how you do it, if you elect to use "objects." Some can be harmful; others may find their way up into your colon - and may have to be retrieved by an ER physician.
Anal stimulation during sessions of cock stimulus often enhances the masturbation and orgasm. Be aware of your anatomy, be selective in techniques you use re: anal stimulation, and enjoy yourself.
NOTE: at some point, you may find you're no longer satisfied with stimulating your anus - and may wish someone else to do so. That, of course, is another conversation for another day.
If you are talking about playing chess or jenga with your butthole, then yes, it is strange for a guy to play with his butthole.