Is it normal for a straight guy to love a trans ftm ?

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I've met this person two years ago. First she had to pretend to be a girl due to administrative reasons, and I fell in love with her. When we became closer friends "she" told me he was in fact a man. Trapped in a female body since he was born.
I wasn't surprised or anything when he revealed this to me, and I kept loving him even though I had never been attracted to someone of the same gender before.
Things did not go any further than close friends because, well, let's say he didn't want me. But I can't keep being attracted to him even if I don't see him as a girl anymore, and thus for a long time now. (I guess I must precise that he hasn't started the transition yet)

What's wrong with me ?

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  • yokohama
    8 years ago

    Sexual and romantic orientations are pretty complicated and no one can really define yours except you. But if you love him, you love him, and you should probably be open to the idea of reevaluating your orientation. Because he is, no matter what anyone else or your subconscious may tell you, a man. Not technically a woman or anything. Good luck, man.

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago

    You're bi curious or bisexual

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