Is it normal for a straight guy to have lots of gay friends and no girlfriend?

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I am a straight guy and 90% of my friends are gay. Also, I almost never have a girlfriend... So I am surrounded by gayness almost all the time.

The thing is that I am not interested in any sport and I don't drink or party... so regular guys usually don't befriend me. On the other hand, I am kind of femenine in certain aspects, so people usually think I am gay as well, so they don't approach me. Also, I am quite open-minded about homosexuality, I am not homophobic at all and I am always nice to gay people.

I am 100% straight... I never wanted anything with any guy. My gay friends know this as well, even when they initially thought I was gay, in the end, when they got to know me, they realized I am completely straight.

I love my gay friends, they are really nice and we have a lot of fun together. I also don't feel pressured to act all macho all the time, so I actually feel more free with them. Sometimes I even go to some "gay activities" with them.

However... I don't know any other straight guy so deep into the gay world. I feel like maybe what I am doing is not so normal and that I should get more straight friends or try to be around more girls... maybe even try to get a girlfriend.

In fact, I feel as if I was technically a gay person that just doesn't have any gay relationship. I don't know, is what's happening to me normal?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Good for you.

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  • devil-in-skirt
    10 years ago

    normal and i liked u .. if u feel u need more friends who r not gay or girls or even a gf u should and if u don't need that u shouldn't but normally u have to have friends in both genders

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Absolutely normal.

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  • Cupcake14
    10 years ago

    Haha I'm like that, I'm always around lesbians and shit yet I'm completely straight. And other straight girls are like WTF. And i just casually flip the bird and walk on.

    Fuck them bitches that judge and can't tolerate others unlike them.

    You are completely normal, bro. :3

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  • kkisawesome
    10 years ago

    Maybe u should start dating girl or being on dating sites and DONT talk bout how u have gay friends to your gf might think. Your gay

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  • TacticalTurtle
    10 years ago

    surrounded by gayness lol, and yeah its normal.

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  • set4life
    10 years ago

    If everybody had your attitude, the world would be a better place

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