Is it normal for a retired fem. 'porn star' to suceed in a traditional marriage

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I met this wonderful lady who admits to involvement in the porn industry for 3 ish years. She has been away from that life for over 10 yrs. & is now a successful business woman.She has had no prior marriages (obviously not virginal). I know there are no sure things in life, but do we have a chance of success? BTW, I am a widower, 1 successful marriage.

Yes, I think 22
No, I think 3
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Just by asking us this question, I think you have shown us that you are overly concerned with her past. Something about it obviously makes you very uncomfortable.
    For that reason, I'd say you should give this one a miss, because your attitude will one day come back to bite this relationship in the ass.

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    • 1knotted
      8 years ago

      Hi from the OP. I do respect your opinion. Yes, I had considered your point of view. On the flip side is the fact that this fine lady was forthcoming with this info early in the relationship, with NO hint of hiding the past & hoping for the best. While the history doe NOT bother me personally, I am concerned as to how to (or not to) share this with family members. While deeply in love, neither of us wish to alienate my kids & grand kids. We are both willing to continue our relationship without legal sanctions. Thanks.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Why on earth would your family members need to know about this? Not that it's anything to be ashamed of, but it is irrelevant to the person she now is

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  • NeofelisNebulosa
    8 years ago

    Porn actresses are regular people. I'm sure if you are compatible, things will work out just fine!

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    I think that the way in which you chose to ask your question is telling me that it bothers you that your potential wife may or may not have had 74 different penises lodged into her orifices annually. Allegedly, of course.

    But porn people have feelings too... and you should feel ashamed for judging her like this.

    How dare you, sir. How dare you.

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    • 1knotted
      8 years ago

      As I said previously, "I have seen (sadly) some of these polls detour because of a few immature imbeciles.".
      . . . and you have the nerve to say "I think" ?

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  • 1knotted
    8 years ago

    While I await further responses, a 'Thank You' is in order to folks (prior & future) who take the time to offer a serious response. I have seen (sadly) some of these polls detour because of a few immature imbeciles. Again, Thanks, Danke, Gratie, Merci & Gratias.

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  • deshikd
    8 years ago

    I accidentally voted no. She is still a regular person. Marriage with her is no more risky than with anyone else.

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    8 years ago

    one of my dad's many wives' was an exotic dancer. She was really nice to us even after my dad dumped her.

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  • ThingOne
    8 years ago

    Can you tell us what movies she has done? Mmmmm. I want to see her in action.

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    • 1knotted
      8 years ago

      is your query Germain to the question?

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      • ThingOne
        8 years ago

        If Germain is a good fuck, then I would say yes.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    This shouldn't be a problem. There is a small chance that she will want the two of you to become swingers someday. If you don't have a problem with that, she is a good candidate for you.

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  • handsignals
    8 years ago

    What movies has she done?

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    • dytrog
      8 years ago

      None I was just making the point that someone in the sex business could make a change if they wanted to. It would be harder for a porn star. but not imposible.

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      • handsignals
        8 years ago

        I just wanted to rub one out over yo bitch, was her name Germain? Did she do Gag Factor?

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    • 1knotted
      8 years ago

      is your query Germain to the question?

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      • handsignals
        8 years ago

        Germain???

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    I knew a prostitute that was still working in her 30's and has been married for years after quitting. Her husband knew of her past.

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