Is it normal for a partner to be jealous of a person used in fantasy sex play?

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my partner and I enjoy mutual masterbation very much and go the whole way like this(orgasm) without penetration
After we knew each other well while doing it one day during dirty talk I started talking about someone else being there with us. I wasn't suggesting it in reality this person was introduced to the scenario. Sort of like "what are you doing with .... now , what I am doing , can I fuck them now when you're finished". that type of thing (although I'm keeping it clean here).
Anyway last week my partner met the person (who was a real person and incidentally my cousin) and my partner couldn't manage even to speak to my cousin then when we went home there was a row and tears and I think my partner was really hurt. Is this normal.
My partner was as into the scenarios as I was and often started the talk.

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    Well in England its illegal to marry cousins first or second

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  • jimmythecunt
    7 years ago

    You made a innocent mistake using your cousins name...or you want your cousin to take up the role you described, either way, who cares?

    If you want to masturbate with your cousin, just do it already!

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  • cinderfloof
    7 years ago

    Letting go of the cousin thing, it makes sense. It probably made your partner feel like they were less desirable to you than the other person. A fantasy girl that you concocted is a way different ballgame than another woman you actually know who actually exists and is acttually competing for your attention. Everything should be fine though. Just let your partner know that she is the special one for you, and the only person that has your heart. It sounds mushy but that should work. Unless, of course, you're actually thinking about having a relationship with this cousin. In which case, let your wife know that.

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    • cinderfloof
      7 years ago

      Sorry, not wife. I assumed that. Your partner.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Having weird fantasies about someone you're related to isn't normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      'weird fantasies" where are you from ?1930?
      Also cousins being intimate is not only highly common and normal but also legal. Yes cousins can even marry! hope that doesn't upset your delicate sensibilities to much...

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        I'm just calling it like I see it. Incest is messed up, end of story.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          cousins isn't recognised as incest even in the eyes of the law !
          That's why they even can marry!

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            You're wrong! It's illegal and considered incest in plenty of places, and if it's legal were you are you live in a assbackwards place.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              7 years ago

              YOU ARE WRONG, 20 percent of marriages around the world are between first cousins, that Albert Einstein and Charles Darwin married their first cousins, and that first-cousin marriage, while prohibited in half the United States, is legal in Canada and throughout Europe.
              I will get back to you on which other countries marrying cousins is legal(I didn't check yet) if this hasn't shut you up
              Open your mind and educate yourself!

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    It properly would have been better to introduce a stranger not a family it can cause animosity between and mistrust because you and your partner know the person in question.and why would you choose your cousin do u have feelings for him which would be a bit naughty.think so apology is due your partner to reassure him

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      my partner was female I am male, not that it should matter
      Also please read my reply below regarding cousins.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    no my question was is it normal for my girlfriend to get so upset about meeting someone we used in our fantasy
    Our fantasy wasn't tm masturbate with mw cousin it was for us to have a threesome with my cousin.
    While my gf and I masterbate'd together we would ask each other what we wanted the other to be doing or what are we all doing now etcetera..
    I wanted to be with mygirlfriend or preferably with her and my cousin but not to go with mw cousin behind my gf back
    And my girlfriend was into the fantasy atleast , it turns out, if the other girl wasn't a real person.

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