Is it normal for a mother to show the father nude pics of their daughter?

A few days ago, my mom read a message on facebook from a husband's wife. I had sex with the guy. I did not know he was married. I am on a nude site so, that's how we met. The wife had a link where the pictures were and sent that link to my mom. My mom had sent the link to my dad. That had really pissed me off, why would she do that? I am 18 so, I am not a child. I felt like she really wanted to piss me off. No, I am not embarrassed. She was like " I know you're a better person than that ...and you have no self respect" Blah blah blah. She should stay out of my business. Do you think that's right for a mother to show the father naked pictures of her 18 year old daughter. Also, my mother and father are separated. They live in the same city but, are in no relationship. I live with my dad, not my mom. I feel like my mom does lots of things to piss me off, if she really loved me, she wouldn't have done that.

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  • when someone puts their nude pics online anyone can see them thats the problem

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    • Its_Called_Love

      Solution: Don't post nude pictures on web sites.

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      • No, I think I will continue it

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  • Britton

    I'm with Godly....I think we need the link so that we can honestly judge if it was right or not lol :D

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  • Shackleford96

    Links or it didn't happen.

    Lol. I'm just joking... Or maybe not...

    I was a little confused by your story, but to me it kind of sounds like your mom was just tattling on you to your dad. Maybe (just maybe) she didn't fully consider the inappropriateness of what she was doing by linking your dad to the website? I don't know.

    I would compare it to working at a strip club though. It is one thing for your mom to tell on you by saying to your dad that you work at a strip club and telling him which one, but it is a completely different thing if your dad decides to visit that strip club... It is awkward, but most dads would realize that it's inappropriate and not do it.

    Ultimately you have only yourself to blame because, as others have said, that is the risk you take when you put nude photographs of yourself on the internet.

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  • There is nothing wrong with the naked body. If she has those pics on a site that is about nude pictures, then that's fine, don't say she's a slut or a whore for it. The naked body is art. Infact, as you all must know, there are art classes that are all about painting, drawing, sculpting the naked body, so don't call her things like slut for doing it online.

    But, the law can't do anything. She would of known the risks of doing such a thing. You should of known that this could happen. Although the people that done it surely are doing it to get some sort of revenge, it still doesn't make what they done a crime.

    You know the risks of putting things on the internet. Don't be ashamed of it, just say that you think the naked body is art that should be shown.

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    • RubyCane

      Well, I think you misunderstood what my statement is all about... So let's get some things straight.

      First of all, I absolutely agree that the naked body is art and I have a perfect sense of this art since I'm both a paiter and a photographer, apart from my other professions (I have worked quite a few times with naked models).

      My point was that, unfortunately, society and people arround us are bound with unwritten moral and ethical "laws" and "rules"... An action that opposes these rules can cause awkward and unplenty or painful fellings and thoughts (minor or major) to those who are seriously bound to them...

      I also stated that that "I ain't judging your decisions or attitude (NOONE is entitled to do that), I'm just viewing the facts under your mother's perspective". That means that, yes, I also am liberated (more than necessary, I would say) and I've been into plenty of wierd, twisted, "unacceptable" and "inappropriate" activities in my life but I also pointed out that a good balance between spontaneousness (not-giving-a-f*ck)and conforming to established social standards should be kept in any case...

      I am the one who advices friends and strangers to live their life to the Maximum, to treasure each and every single moment and never hold back, never regret, never abide by the role that society wants you to play... Life is your own movie, be the ONLY ONE director and roll it your way!

      I'm terribly sorry if my phrastical ability wasn't good enough to communicate my true concept of thoughts to all of you.

      Peace, Love, Unity and Having Fun! ( <---this is also a song written and performed by Afrika Bambaataa & James Brown, a real great one!!!)

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      • Hmm? I never made my comment based on your opinion here. I scrolled down this story abit to see if you had commented previously and if there is any reason why you have linked my comment as a response to yours. I can see why you might think my comment was made in response to yours, but I assure you that it wasn't.

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        • RubyCane

          No problem at all, my brother, I was just making myself clear to avoid any arguements with the story author... I don't like to "play God" and advice people like I'm 100% perfect in every aspect of my own life so, you can consider my original reply to you more like a state of my concept and my viewpoints rather than an apology to you individually. Have a wonderful day, bro! :)

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  • RubyCane

    You will answer your own question in a few years, when you will be the not-so-proud mother of a lil-bit-of-slutty daughter... No offence, I ain't judging your decisions or attitude (NOONE is entitled to do that), I'm just viewing the facts under your mother's perspective. She doesn't want to piss you off, she just loves you and cares about you so much that she feels disappointed out of you and your "inappropriate" behaviour... Think about it hun, I may be pretty much liberated myself but we sometimes ought to keep in mind that we are a part of a social group (either this is called family or friends) and our individual actions and way of life can strongly affect those who are really close to us. Respect their love about you and don't misunderstand them at all, as you will eventually be "in their shoes" in the future! Take care, love.

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  • POM

    Sorry to break the bubble here, but I can totally understand her reaction. I mean, she is your mother who just found out her child is a public whore, and wants to be shown naked on a web site. This means your father anyway could have seen you naked if he would have bumped onto that site. Apart from that, from your story it seems like she didn't send him the individual pictures but just the link to the site, which points to the fact that she is just shocked and angry her daughter would do something like that, and wants to share the information with your father for him to take action/talk with you. Maybe she feels like you're out of control and she cannot help you anymore. This is how it sounds to me.
    Also, your mother and father most probably also didn't want to see you naked at your age, they just want to make sure you stay on the right path (according to their believes). If I were your mother, I would also feel disappointed my daughter would do such a thing.

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    • Dudedude

      She's not a whore and it's a shame you would destroy your daughter's self esteem by saying there is something wrong with her body that it should be hidden from everyone. Grow up

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  • kyanviado

    Police should be involved!

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    • Its_Called_Love

      For what, the pictures were already on the internet. Her mom just sent a link to the site... It would be more awkward if her father happened upon them while cruising the internet for porn... :(

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  • mike129

    some times it's good don't hide it
    u be ok

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  • Couman

    I don't think this was really about you or what kind of website you frequent. I think she was trying to get at your father, or possible attempting to mess up hit relationship with you of jealousy.

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  • Dudedude

    Ignore the warped American minds claiming nudity is sexual. Being in your natural state does not make you a whore, as most of the British know.

    Don't worry about people seeing them. I used to be embarassed about my family knowing I'm into nudism, now I don't care. I don't deliberately show myself naked but if they happen to see a photo of me on a website or something I don't care.

    You may have to be careful if you plan to be a teacher though, especially in the United States of Let's-Make-Everything-Seem-Perverted or Australia

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    • No, I don't want to be a teacher. I couldn't even imagine that. Too difficult for me. Thanks for not thinking of me as whore like the other people. You are a very kind person.

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  • okbaby

    Don't put any nude pictures on the Internet or even an email. Once it gets on the Internet it's there for eternity.

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  • My mom is a bigger "whore" then me. Atleast, I wear clothes that cover up in public, she doesn't. My mother wears stuff that makes most of her boobs stick out, sometimes a little bit of her nipple sticks out. She always has something perverted to say like everytime I visit her house. When I go out in public, I wear clothes that don't show too much. I hardly ever talk perverted.

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  • 1000Dogs

    So, if I'm reading this right, your mom sent your dad nude pictures of you that you submitted to a porn site, as evidence of what you did. In that sense, it's not terribly strange.

    I'd like to strongly recommend that you take whatever money you get from your activities and go to college, though, because there is quite literally no future in selling your body in any fashion. You might be aware of that already, but it bears expounding upon.

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  • Ramit10

    I honestly wouldnt worry about it. If you want to post naked pics then go ahead and do so. You are of age and are totally legal to do so. Anyway whats the site? hahaha

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  • Aleks85

    Of course it's normal, you're a tramp and your parents have to decide where they went wrong as a couple. In order for that to happen they both have to come to the conclusion you're a wannabe porn star.

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    • I'm not a slut. You think my parents are perfect they never respect me, beat me up. they always treated my brother and sister better than me. And no, I'm not anorexic with big titties so, I don't wanna be a pornstar.

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      • Aleks85

        Then why would you put yourself on a nude website? That seems like a pretty slutty thing to do to me.

        So your blaming your low self-esteem caused by your parents to make you do this then?

        I'm sorry your parents treat you badly, but don't make it worse by treating yourself badly and with no respect.

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