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Is it normal for a mother to expect her daughter to be a virgin in her wedding night?
Parents caring about their children's sex lives in that way is pretty creepy.
I understand perfectly, I don't have children yet but I want my daughter to remain a virgin until her wedding night and not make the same mistake I made.
If that's not what you want, then don't listen to her. She has no right to force her values on someone else.
Nothing could be more effective in screwing up a marriage than virginity, so I would hope not. Sex, like anything else, takes practice and experience to get good at. Few intelligent guys these days want a wife who knows nothing of how to please her partner, and is hesitant and unsure of herself as a lover. A intelligent guy would never call an experienced woman a slut, he'd call her a good lover, and appreciate her.
It depends on the society. There are some cultures where this is perfectly normal. The average american would not understand.
The normalcy of the whole waiting til marriage thing depends on religious and cultural factors.
I wouldn't want to have saved myself for marriage unless the guy I was marrying was a virgin as well. Double standards in regard to love and sex are absolute bullshit! I'm so glad I saved myself just until I met my first love. We were both virgins, and although we were only together a year those were some of the best memories of my life! I'm glad I didn't give myself to someone with "experience" and I certainly wouldn't ever have wanted to save myself and then marry someone who wasn't my equal. Nothing turns me on more than being with my equal partner!
Its normal to be worried about that, but honeymoons were literally invented for the baby making process. The Incas in ancient mexico would lock the newlyweds in a room with alcohol for a number of hours. Because they were supposed to have sex.
Under no circumstances, in no way, at no point or place in the history of time is this normal.
If you are an atheist, no. Most religions teach this to be normal, however, and this viewpoint is one that I would hold (waiting for the hate).
All moms wants their daughter/son to be virgin till honeymoon......but nobody cares......if u know he/she is the one then have sex with them.YOU ARE GONNA DO IT ANYWAYS!